Re: What does she want?!
If she tells you that she wants nothing serious, then you know it's a friends with benefits. As for trying to figure out whether she wants to put you on the back burner or not, she will usually say things like "Let's wait a while" or "Maybe one day we'll start dating".
Given that, I highly recommend against sitting around and waiting for her. If she wants to put you on the shelf and go around having fun with other men, than I'm going to move on with my life and have fun with other women. I'm not going to stick around just because she says that there might be some potential between us in the future. I'm not her puppy dog, and neither should you be.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X