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    Default Long Distance..

    long story short.

    was at language school, fell for my teacher (8 years older), and after alot of flirting and making out she is more in love with me then i am with her. however i am now in another country, still europe. just wondering where i would go from here because i dont want to stop talking to her just yet. but i dont want to keep going at this rate, where were talking on fb and she is telling me that if i come back she will never let me out of the room...

    i think if i talk everyday like this ill ruin it because i wont be able to return in months. however i do want like friends with benefits, she liked the idea. and i was just wondering... sending nudes? Skype calling her? or just easing the level of chatting, or keep going like this.

    Suggestions?

    Thanks Playas

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    Default Re: Long Distance..

    Because you are not aiming for a long distance relationship, the normal advice of talk often will not come into play. However, you should still aim to keep things fresh and upbeat.

    I would agree though that to lead her on is a foolish idea. Just be honest with her and tell her that you are not looking for a relationship. If she wants friends with benefits than make it friends with benefits. Because you are aiming to decrease attraction rather than increase it, there may be a chance that it just drops off all together. I doubt that this is likely, considering that if you are honest with her, she will only respect you more for it.
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    Default Re: Long Distance..

    I agree with my buddy the Swagman.

    I just want to add that you should never send nudes. 25 years from now you could be in a very prominent position of employment and those pics will come back to haunt you.

    Girls don't want nudes, they are emotional creatures and they want you to paint a picture with words. That means more to them than you sending them a pic of you flexing your muscles while having a hard on.

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    Default Re: Long Distance..

    i would never ever send nudes to a girl, i meant the other way around. however we are very open about everything.


    i was just wondering, what if for example i did want a relationship, then how would you guys approach this if say you are aiming for a relationship, and not eventually end up in the friend zone due to lack of physical contact.

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    Default Re: Long Distance..

    If you want to remain friends with the potential for a relationship, then do the same as a friends with benefits: keep it fresh. Flirt with her and make sure that the bond between you two doesn't fall apart. Flirting doesn't just mean for moving the conversation towards a relationship. Flirting can also be used to make things fun, and everybody loves fun.
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