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Thread: How to Keep a Girl Friend

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    Default How to Keep a Girl Friend

    Hey Guys.

    So theres this girl right who i managed to kiss close after a few days. But the thing is she just left for another country, a country where alot of other guys are chasing after her. Guys who should could potential date, seeing as me and her dont have to strong a relationship. She is by far the best girl i've ever been with though, and i really want to keep her.

    I have been thinking through my own ideas of how to keep her thinking about me. But i was wondering if anyone had some more professional advice to offer me. Anything at all would be really appreciated.

    Thanks a ton guys.

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    Default Re: How to Keep a Girl Friend

    I'm going to have to bust your bubble on this one.

    You say you kissed her after a few days. Is that it? And you consider her your gf and that she's the best you've ever been with? This seems like a classic case of oneitis. And I don't throw that word around lightly like a lot of guys do.

    She moved to another country man. To me that's pretty much ran it's course. There are plenty of special, interesting women to talk to. Don't get yourself hung up on the first one that gave you attention. I know this is none of what you want to hear, but you need to hear this from someone. Chalk it up to experience and let go. If she ever comes back to the country then maybe try again.
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    Default Re: How to Keep a Girl Friend

    Yep I have to agree with batman. She left for another country and you only kissed her. Think about it. There is another person who will/may have sex with her and (may) also kiss her and (may) buy her fancy things and (may) say nice things to her, which will (may) lead her to liking that person more.

    You need to find another girl soon or you will keep thinking about this girl. If she comes back in the country then you can finish up where you left off but until then move on quickly.
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    Default Re: How to Keep a Girl Friend

    First of all. No need to burst my bubble, cuz i came here for advice on how to keep it up. Not here stuff about experience. Oh and i didnt say she was my Gf i just said i dont want to loss her, as in the sense i dont want her to loss attraction towards me for another guy.

    Just cuz i have a low rank on here doesnt mean i'm a complete noob outside, and shes not the first one whose given me attention lol. Forgot to give more info, she's coming back in a month, but thanks for your feedback lol.

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    Oh btw dont think im being spiteful, i appraciate the words. Its just not what i asked for. It would be nice to know for now, as well as having a future referance.

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    Default Re: How to Keep a Girl Friend

    Well recognize that she has to want it also. If the attraction is there then it should be easy to talk to each other and keep that attraction for a month. No real trick to it. If she didn't think the kiss was a big deal then you'll know. She will be distant and not really make an effort to keep in contact with you. But you really shouldn't think the kiss was a big deal either. At least that's the way things are around here.
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