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    Default Am I fooling myself?

    Hey everyone out there, the Prof posting again on a rather sadder note this time.

    I just finished a date I went on with a girl I met online, I'll post details over the weekend on how I managed that. Technically the date went well, I was interesting, talkative but also listened to her, the conversation flowed naturally and everything...

    But there was no sexual Tension between us. Don't get me wrong, I was all into her, she was at least an 8 maybe even a 9 but girls think of me as...well cute..what the hell are you supposed to do against that? I know the date only just finished but I don't need to wait to know how this will end up, just like the others 'let's be friends.'

    I'm not even sure if I'm asking for advise but I can't really see what I can do about it, short of hitting the gym like full time for a couple of years!

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    Default Re: Am I fooling myself?

    Sounds like you went to one of those "dinner and talk" kind of dates. I hate those. I prefer to do something fun. Like pool or bowling. Hell even an amusement park. Plenty of opportunities for Kino and the conversation isn't forced during awkward silences. I'll even take her for a couple of drinks if it's a place you can dance with her to some good music. Great for sexual Tension.
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    Default Re: Am I fooling myself?

    Almost right, it was drinks and talking instead of dinner. The thing is I wouldn't have done anything different looking back over it.I was worried the whole time before hand that she was gonna be the usual crazy / ugly / super over weight but doesn't show it in her pics like they normally are online but she had to go and be actually hotter in real life!! The moment she walked into the place I realised I might as well go home then for all the good I was gonna do!

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    Default Re: Am I fooling myself?

    Just gonna be blunt, you probably talked to much, I'm one of those cute adorable types and I don't usually have that problem. Next time instead of having a talking date have a more active date, hiking, pottery making , dancing etc, you have to retain that sense of mystery, if she feels like she already knows you after the date than all the fun and excitement dissipates and you get the "lets be friends" BS line. It basically means you're nice but I'm not attracted. If you are stuck on a date that involves alot of talking next time just let her do most of the talking and just make playful comments here and there, reveal as little personal info as possible and shell be coming back for more. It's kind of like potato chips, try to eat just one and your overwhelmed with cravings for more but eat a whole bag and you don't want to see a potato chip for days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Professor View Post
    Almost right, it was drinks and talking instead of dinner. The thing is I wouldn't have done anything different looking back over it.I was worried the whole time before hand that she was gonna be the usual crazy / ugly / super over weight but doesn't show it in her pics like they normally are online but she had to go and be actually hotter in real life!! The moment she walked into the place I realised I might as well go home then for all the good I was gonna do!
    i'm going to be even more blunt than any of the other posters.

    to be honest you put her on a pedestal the second she walked in. if you put her value over your own, then it causes you to presuppose that she is of higher value than you are (witch is what causes you to get friend zoned every time) you have to know your value and not care about how good she looks. i'm not saying to fein dis-interest, i'm telling you that if you are going to run Indirect Game you need to friend zone her and make her the one who isn't good enough for you ( the ultimate role reversal right ) you needed to be less interested, that whole "beauty is common" routine from mystery method should not just be a routine it needs to be a cold hard Mindset. the mindset that you would rather have an ugly chick who is cool to hang out with, than a super hot b!tch.

    the lesson to be learned is simple "don't judge a book by its cover"

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    Default Re: Am I fooling myself?

    Should probably point out that she wasn't just hot, she was actually interesting and talented lol Seriously I wanted to find SOMETHING wrong with her, best I found was she plays candy crush on facebook!

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    Default Re: Am I fooling myself?

    Should probably point out that she wasn't just hot, she was actually interesting and talented lol Seriously I wanted to find SOMETHING wrong with her, best I found was she plays candy crush on Facebook!
    That's your issue right here stop making her out to be a golden goddess whos woman region is made of pure chocolate and gold flakes, she's just a girl. You need a total Mindset perspective switch, your the talented interesting and attractive one and your the farking man so if she wants your approval she's going to have to impress, that's the mindset you need, you're in the opposite.


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