There's this girl, and I'm shooting a long shot here.
It's complicated but I'll be as brunt as I can be.
Met this girl from years ago, her mom was my teacher. So there's that to my advantage. Seen her at parties a few times, got her attention and I know she's at least semi interested.
What I can say about her is she's a HB8 with a little attitude, creative and genuine. I can also tell she wants an Alpha, in particular. Fine with me also
Problem is, I'm losing her to my other friend who wants her as a FWB but I want her as my own. My cause is better, and my friend wouldn't have hard feelings, he's pretty chill. I hope... haha.
At any rate, I'm limited to two options...
Wait till I see her again at a party, try to Isolate her and then be straight up and ask her out... but risk losing her to my friend.
I ask her out on facebook, and try to convey interest in a slight fashion.
I know I got the right idea, but I don't know how to freaking word it!
I'm considering messaging her with...
Hey Shelby, I couldn't help but notice you at the party. You seem pretty alright, and I'd like to get to know you better. How are things with Gregg? Because to be straight up, I'd like to see you Friday night at the Pizza stone(Local joint).
Consensus here is light at first, then BAM! Yes I want to date you but I respect your current affairs, blah blah.
Or I could just straight ask her out on a date. What do you guys think?