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Thread: Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

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    Default Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

    There is a girl I like a lot, so I sent her a message on facebook telling her that I cannot stop thinking about her and how much I like her but up to now she has not acknowledged my friend request . What should I do next guys?

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    Default Re: Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

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    Sorry to say, but you already blew it before you even got started. You NEVER tell a girl off the bat that you can't stop thinking about her and that you like her a lot. As for the friend request, she either hasn't seen it yet, or now she's freaked out.

    Actually, if it's possible (which I think is), delete the message ASAP before she sees it. Unless she already saw it.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

    Is this for real? I feel like we're being Punk'd.

    Lol yea it's a bad move to do that. So obviously you haven't done much in PUA yet. It's a fun journey to learn these skills so you should get started. It takes awhile to master this stuff, but we're here for you all the way buddy. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

    I knew I blew it from the start with that girl. However there is another girl I like too but she is much younger than I.

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    Default Re: Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

    Well personally for me it depends how you know her. If its strictly Facebook then yes it's game over. If you know her via friends there is still a chance. Just got to know how to play the game mate.

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    Default Re: Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

    Go through a lot of the forum subtopics. "How to text" "Approach" etc and look at the top of each one for Stickies of guides and other good posts. If you mull through those enough and apply the techniques you will be much better than this in no time. The message you sent is actually the lowest of the low, it's like the definition of AFC. But that's okay. I've done worse I bet. Hahahah. It's all part of the fun man.

    That should really be lesson 1: you are the prize. You'll hear that a lot if you stick around. But the more you get rejected the more you'll start to believe it if you want to keep yourself sane and still have a very active love life. Sign up for some online sites and start gaming that way. Practice on girl you dont even want to hook up with. And JUDGE them. Not openly, but when they message back, you will see the same sort of AFC things emulated in girls who are under your league as you would with yourself going up against girls out of your league. Analyze that. Don't do those things. And read around on how to approach women in a fun and exciting way, whether it be a first message, a day approach, a night time crush, a "I farked it up with this girl but i want to talk with her still and fix it" text - no matter the case you should always keep the same "frame". Just be fun always and enjoy the ride. You kinda messed this one up but there's millions more and a lot of them have even better bodies and cuter smiles. Don't be afraid to let girls go. The faster you learn that the faster you will fall into the mindset of someone who gets laid alot. Which is really no mindset at all.

    I have a good friend that is a complete narcissist but he can be quite hilarious and he really is a good guy. He is shallow as all hell and claims most girls really don't "attract" him. But he'll get laid all the time. And he never spends a dime. He's so far beyond it he just only dates hot babes who are willing to pay for him here and there if they want a date and otherwise just are down to hang out watch movies and bang. He doesn't talk to girls really either. He has no approach game. But once they're around him he gets the feeling they love him (because of his complex he thinks every girl ever loves him) and since he plays that mindset, it almost becomes reality much of the time. He's the epitome of that guy who has girls all over him and is too dumb to know why. That's really the role you want to play. He's not dumb, he's just got other priorities and doesn't let girls control the way he is. There's something to be said about being yourself.

    So tread with caution as well here man. You can get a lot of help, and I think most guys would agree that generally you'll start out feeling like your unique way is the best approach to the whole game, and then slowly you'll take advice, and then at some point you'll have taken too much advice and back off, and then maybe rinse and repeat a few times until you realize you've learned a lot of valuable info and it's ingrained but now you just need to sit back and go with the flow and be yourself and not always try to forcefully implement all the things you know about being a PUA. It's a balance you're looking for. And then you will become alpha. Once you are actually alpha it's kind of miraculous how fast you start seeing differences in women's reactions towards your presence. You will know it when it happens. But it might not stick either so always be bettering yourself. But don't EXPECT improvement. Just put yourself in the mindset to achieve your goal of being fluent with females and don't worry about the rest. Don't worry if in 6 months you haven't done but 1 approach. I mean yah, get your sh1t going and try harder, but if that's the way it is then so be it. No need to stress yourself out. That will only cause you to produce fake game. And the hottest chicks of all will never ever fall for a fake game.

    Think of it this way: they get so much attention that they've basically sampled a huge portion of the male population in their area. They know what kind of guys are weak and which mediocre and which are the true alphas. They can easily distinguish the different behaviors. HB7's might let it slide, but if you're shooting for the top one screw up and any super hot babe will pass you over like it wasn't even a second thought. No matter HOW close you got. She could be naked and change her mind and never look back. It's in those situations you gotta punch yourself in the d1ck but also remember still: you are the prize! Hahahah.

    Hopefully some of that was inspirational. Browse around dude. And don't be shy. The more you get into the way things work around here the more it becomes like a fun hobby of sorts. Just something you do in your off time. And it's a skill that is useful in really all aspects of life. Game your job interviewer, game your teacher, game whoever you have to to get what you need or want out of life. And if you don't get it don't be upset!

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    Thumbs up Re: Need advice on what to do next with a girl I like!

    Let me just say that she used to be married but now she is divorced! Man she is quite hot and sexy though! Every time I see her she just blows my mind. Ayway I will follow your advice check around the forum for information because I am tired of being alone.


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