Re: More Than a Fling?
I've never experienced a woman going through this, but I know I do. After sex, even if I really like the girl, I often just want to be by myself for a bit. I don't want to make future plans and sometimes don't even want to talk about the night we had. I just need some space to gather my thoughts. Then I'm fine and don't get too weirded out by making plans with her. I think I get scared that they will want a relationship.
Not saying that this is what she is going through, but it's possible. You already sent out an invite so best thing is just give her her space. Have general convo, but don't make any plans for a week. Wait until next week or weekend to bring up plans. For now just have light hearted convo.
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