Hey guys so I'm a brand new member on PUA and here goes my first post. So I've known this girl for about a year now, shes a sophomore and I'm a senior in college. When we first met a year ago all my friends told me she was into me but I pretty much friend zoned her, but as time went on she grew on me and around November I started going after her with whatever nonexistent game that I have and we were spending a lot of time together. She would come over at times and we'd cook and she would sleep over. Anyways things were going great for like two weeks and next thing you know one of my roommates who had just gotten out of a relationship started going after her and pretty much sabotaged me trying to ask her on a date. He pretty much made her uncomfortable being around me and she dropped off. We would still talk but things weren't the same. As the year progressed we talked and she would tell me about her problems in life and with guys, and I would just sit there and listen, which now I know was not the best idea. It was still bothering me that I hadn't asked her out so I did at the end of the year on her birthday. I bought her a necklace and a jewelry box along with a teddy bear, gave it to her and asked her out, got denied because she said she looked at me as one of the guys she would hang out with. So after that I was like alright whatever, at least its off my chest. But I still think about her which is annoying me, I made it a conscious effort to not have any communication with her during the summer and when she came back she wanted to hang out, but I said no. Then the next day I ended up dog sitting for her, which I'm pretty sure counteracted not hanging out with her on the previous day. That's where I'm at right now and I honestly need help. It would be great if I could get some tips on what I did wrong previously and what I could have done better, and what I can do now to get out of the friend zone. I know I'm suppose to distance my self and make her jealous but that's pretty much all I know. I usually get asked out by other girls, but shes the only girl I've ever asked out. I'm a pretty confident guy, who grooms himself and is athletic, not shy and I can always make people laugh but I have absolutely NO GAME WHATSOEVER. If I could get some feedback that would be great! Oh and if you have any question feel free to ask.