long time studier 1st time poster!!
so met this awesome HB nearly 3 months ago and hit it off really well. first one in a long time with LTR potential!!
been texting everyday since the start, talking on the phone 3-4 times a week for the last month or more & hanging out quite a bit too, almost a relationship w/o the labels.
She has really strong morals about sex outside of a relationship & even about jus hooking up with anyone. which I love about her.
Anyway last fri night she came over for dinner, we hung out n ended up going 2bed, made out, finally got her pants off and fingered her till she nearly came n she said she had to stop because she wouldn't be able to control herself any longer (of course I tried to play it off but she was very adamant lol) she was jerking me off for a lil while as well. so we jus chilled for a while n she stayed the night as usual.
so im thinking at this point she must be getting some pretty strong feelings to go that far n open up like she did. We both had busy day's on the sat but still texted back n forth, did our own thing on sat nite n txting still till about midnight. this is where it got a bit messy.....
so I hadn't heard from her by tue nite so I texted her
Me: Hey dork been really busy, hope everything's ok? talk soon x
Her Reply the next morning:
Hey all good don't stress been pretty busy too! Anyway have a good day!
that was it!! So I gave her benefit of the doubt n let her be until wed n replied to her that I didn't buy it. after a bit of prodding she sends:
I dunno, just don't think I want anything n don't wanna give you the wrong idea or anything :/
so Im going to her place tonight to talk face to face.
her last bf of 3-4yrs cheated on her so im thinkin she may jus be worried about me hurting her?
my ultimate goal is for LTR. I am seeing 2 other girls but they just don't do it like this one does.
sorry for the long story but can anyone share their thoughts on this & what the best way to handle tonight would be? It seems to have come from completely out of nowhere.