Re: Friends, Lovers, or Nothing
Well one of the ultimate rules for any PUA is to never go AFC which essentially means your bright "ideas" of oneitis can be thrown right out the window. Remember you should never try to pull in a girl or get so hung up on her where you are trying to get exclusive. In a nutshell? You were jealous and showed signs of wanting to get exclusive to her and in her emotional state she LJBF'd you because she wants to have fun and you to her right now are not fun.
Now you can turn this around not to say it is a bad thing. You have an HB10 in your target area, great. You will have to back away and be around her more often (don't go cold) but at the same time act indifferent towards her. Like dhv's would work great her by making out with other girls or hitting on other girls in front of her. This may cause her to chase you. Also it will work in your favor then because you will have more feelings for other girls and less feelings for her. Remember you are being a little too AFC here this is why I recommend a DHV not a Push-Pull. If you start chasing her again guaranteed she will back away and probably for good dismiss you. But if you DHV her she might get confused and wonder about you which will break your oneitis and give you more buying power. You can salvage here just recommend a cautioned approached rather than gung ho. You are past Gung Ho. Gung Ho is for no loss of value and you already lost some value to her but you can still salvage to restore yourself, love salvaging a damaged relationship worked so many times for me before.
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