A bit of background info:
This girl is well known in my friends circle. Me and her have known each other for years but we rarely ever met up or hung out as friends... maybe 4 or 5 times in total. We were more of acquaintances and certainly not close friends. She is much closer to every else in the friends circle. I'm gonna refer to her as Jessica.
Anyways, after years of most of us not seeing each other, myself and a few friends bumped into Jessica at a local club and had a bit of a "reunion". Myself and Jessica got talking via facebook and I asked her to meet up and have a catch-up. We did that and both had a great time. After that she was away on holidays for a few weeks and then for about 2 weeks she was sick with tonsillitis. During that time we still kept in contact and she was giving me the impression that she liked me. She would nearly always initiate contact, reply immediately, send me love hearts and x's, tease me and general flirting.
So, I decided to ask her out again and see where things go. Since she was sick with tonsillitis and complained that she couldn't eat, I took the initiative to ask her out for a meal when she got better, which she agreed to straight away. The date day eventually came but unfortunately she couldn't go as she was babysitting. I told her there was no worries and that we could re-schedule for another time.
Anyway... I was heading out with friends drinking last Saturday. To my surprise Jessica was also at the house where my friends were pre-drinking (I had no idea she was going). I was told by her best friend Laura (who is girlfriend of my mate who is also close friends with Jessica) that Jessica thought that I was pissed off at her for canceling our date on the Thursday. I told Laura that I wasn't angry with Jessica. During the night, I kind of avoided her and didn't talk much until we got to the club (i'm a shy guy). Me and Jessica eventually got talking in the club and seemed to have a good time.
Fast-forward to when we got back to my mates house... by this time I was extremely drunk and kept falling over and being annoying in general. However, I wasn't being aggressive or insulting to anyone, just falling over the place but keeping myself to myself. Me, Jessica and my brother ended up sleeping in the same bed. Nothing sexual happened but I started holding Jessicas hand. She squeezed back and started playing with my fingers. We were basically spooning so I put my hand on her side. At this point her attitude changes completely and she tells me to stop touching her and to go away. I get the impression that she was starting to get annoyed with me again.
When we woke up the next morning I wanted to talk to her and find out why she seemed in a bad mood for most of the night. Even before we got back to the house and the drink really hit me, others said that Jessica seemed to be in a bad mood. Obviously me getting really drunk later and touching her side must have made things worse. I realized that she was leaving (getting picked up in the car by her mum) so I quickly asked if she was mad at me. She responded with "no... there's no point". Didn't have a chance to talk much after that. I sent her an apology via text later that day which was also an attempt to find out exactly what was wrong with her. This is what I sent:
That was sent last Sunday and since then there has been no contact at all. None via text, facebook or instagram. Nothing. Jessicas best friend Laura said she would talk to her and see what was wrong. Jessica has apparently been ignoring Laura too. I know Jessica isn't busy because she has been on facebook a lot this week and talking to my friends. It seems I am being given the silent treatment."Sorry if I upset or annoyed you last night, I was really drunk and being a d1ck in general. You seemed annoyed with me but I hope everything is ok xx"
My questions are this:
1. What did I do wrong? One minute she is squeezing my hand and the next she is telling me to fark off. Apart from putting my hand on her side, I never touched her inappropriately.
2. Why have I got no response to my apology? Its not like I done anything unforgivable like trying to get off with her, insult or assault her when I was drunk.
3. Where do I go from here? Should I try contacting again and what should I say?