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    Short Guy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Going from dating to girlfriend

    So far, I took a girl out to a gun range. She enjoyed her time and we have been planning a second date soon. I did not do much touching other than a few high fives since I don't want to creep her out. I do worry that I could wind up in the friend zone. Since I have no relationship experience at all, how do I escalate from dating to relationship without getting into the friend zone? Should I kiss her on the second date, or slowly break the touch barrier?

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    Default Re: Going from dating to girlfriend

    Hmm...the good old "how do I get a GF?" question. My last date we did kiss as she leaned in for it so it was easy. Did she lean in? Afraid you are already putting yourself in the friendzone by not putting the moves on her mate. You will just more and more fear the kiss. She will more and more lose attraction for you. You must kiss on the next date no exceptions even if you fail! First impressions are everything with women. Better they play hard to get then you never trying and not knowing anything.


    Anyways the answer is so close yet so far. Every GF I had was never made "Official" with "Hey will you be my GF?" or "Are we BF & GF yet?" Better to leave things to subtext on this area of your expertise. They just ended up coming over, always talking, etc. One thing for sure is if she is always talking (text, phone, dates) then likely she is your GF. I always wound "up" in relationships never asked for them. Sometimes I was clueless what we were but in the end I always found out they thought we were together "even if nothing happened while we were in bed together". That is the ones I knew liked me. Of course the ones who avoided me and hated my guts never were my GF. It's the ones who always came over, called, texted, dated me, and hung out with me, I just knew you know something was going on. Escalate, escalate, escalate. Pound that into your head.
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    maxtazm is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Going from dating to girlfriend

    the best answer is you have sex with her first, and then usually she will ask if she is your girlfriend now, and it is your job to define your relationship


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