Hello PUA community,
I need some help and advice on what I should do for this situation with this HB 9. So I will begin by saying that I met her through an online chatting app and from there I built enough comfort for her to give me her number. That was about 6-7 months ago. She is 27. So last week Friday I texted her to ask her out for some dinner but she refuse because she said she had a bad stomach and that she having a girl thing ( I assume itís her period) So I built some comfort through my text and then she said ďSo what are you going to treat me tomorrow?Ē . From there I can tell she was attracted to me and wanted to invest so I said food and set up the location last Saturday at a restaurant. So on Saturday I was making sure she was comfortable with me in person and used dhv to my advantage. The thing I felt I lacked was Kino Escalation. When the bill came I said I was going to take care of it but she insisted to split it in half. I walk her to her car and we called it a night. I felt the dinner went well and she had fun because we talked for over 2 and a half hour and during that time she never looked at her phone so I feel that I did something right. Later that night I sent her a teasing text since she was going to her friend house.
Me: I hope you didnít get lost getting to your friends house
Her : At her door now
Me: (I sent a cookie emoji)
Me: Here a cookie for not getting lost
Her: Thx lol
Me: Whatís in the hot pot
She went cold after that text so I went to sleep. The next day I woke up and she texted me at 11 am with a text saying this
Her: My phone died last night
Me: Haha Iphone battery ftw
Me: (I sent a youtube video of this girl pranking her bf playing GTA 5 since she said her ex was always playing videogames and cheated on her with his ex.)
Me: I bet you did some of those things
So she went cold after that last text and I felt I should not have sent that youtube video because it was reminding her of her ex. I tried to use it as a tease but it backfire on me. So then I decide to go cold on her till Wednesday which I reopen with this text
Me: Hey little Munchkin, youíll never guess what I just found outÖ.
Me: Our Christmas party is going to be the great Gatsby theme.
Her: wow. Cool. I havnt watched that movie yet.
Me: It was a real good movie.
Me: I have it on my computer
Me: It was a tragedy
Me: Have you heard the main theme song to the movie?
Her I read the book before
Me: Me too
Me: the story was good
Me: so you like reading books?
Me: you ever heard of the iliad
Me: itís a real good read
Me: There was a movie based of that book
Well my last text was
Me: so what day in October is your birthday?
So my dilemma now is that she thinks I am a real outgoing guy that has a lot of girls and she thinks I am a player. She asked me that question at dinner which I try to blush it off. I also asked her out again next Saturday which is coming up in 2 days to a club where my friends are having a vip party. She said she would go at dinner and when I walked her to her car I reminded her about the club event . The text I sent her Wednesday I was off in my text game which I think it destroyed the comfort I built with her last Saturday.Ok Fellas what should I do now. I am lost for ideas and there is no one I can really talk to about my dilemma. Thank you guys for reading this long post .