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Thread: Where did I f*** up?

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    Default Where did I f*** up?

    I met this chick in high school and we hit off so I sent her a friend request on fb which led to me getting her number and then to us hanging out. The whole time we were hanging out every time we would start to get really flirty she would talk about how her best friend a (mutual acquaintance) has a huge crush on me like that was holding her back. We continued to talk and text and go out and i did my best to avoid the friend zone with negs flirting etc. The other night we went to a party and she got drunk and was kissing on other girls that were there but i decided to be a stand up guy and not go for the drunk lay and plus she was on her period so i thought her weirdness about sit on my lap or anything was just a side effect of her red tide. A few days later I brought up relationships which led to me asking her to be more than friends and then i got the whole i don't wanna ruin our friendship spiel. I just wanna know how i messed up so i can avoid it in the future and if there's any coming back from this.

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    Default Re: Where did I f*** up?

    You did your best not to get friend zoned, you tried too hard but most probably too late. a classic.
    Your mistake lies way early in the interaction, you didn't set a sexual tone for the encounter. "You only get ONE chance to make a first impression".

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    Default Re: Where did I f*** up?

    Don't worry man I did the same thing on my first few pick ups. I would get friend zoned right away. You have to set a sexual tone in the beginning or in her mind she will look at you as just a friend. It sucks but you should have at least made out with her at that party.

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    Default Re: Where did I f*** up?

    Thanks for the help guys. I guess the best part about making mistakes is learning from them.

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    Default Re: Where did I f*** up?

    Btw anyone have any tips on getting out of the friend zone with this girl?

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    Default Re: Where did I f*** up?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hellhound196 View Post
    Btw anyone have any tips on getting out of the friend zone with this girl?
    Best way to get out of the friendzone?
    Stay in it.
    Play along with her dont wanna ruin the friendship bullsh1t.
    Treat her like a friend...that you dont like sexually.
    Treat her like the friend that sometimes pisses you off.
    Treat her like anything BUT a person of higher value.

    Then see how she acts when the playing field is leveled.
    -"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"

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    Default Re: Where did I f*** up?

    These guys are right. Definitely need to raise the sexual Tension. And no you haven't lost her. Just avoid talking about the two of you and focus on Kino. Keep your convo friendly and platonic, but your touch has to be flirty and sexual. Hide her from her inhibitions by never talking about what's happening.
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