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    Default NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    so here's the deal. there's this girl right? if youre familiar with pandoras box, she falls under the type of being the "Connoisseur".

    we work together so id see her from time to time. ive asked her out already - twice we went out. but im afraid she thinks that its just us hanging out and getting to know each other as "friends" you know?

    everytime at work when im with her, she's always in a good, as i think she is just a genuinely nice person. but the way she looks at me. the way she would joke around me. am i being dense? i dont know... (even some people at work say we seem to have "chemistry")

    i know though that she's still kinda seeing someone. i know this because she's talked to me about the guy before. but she's confused about how she feels about the other guy. im kinda worried about that situation too. she even went to go see him again she said. when she came by, i didnt bother to ask her about it on purpose and she brought up how i never asked her about it.. she said that i may be "in love with her and that im jealous!`` jokingly.

    specific example that happened recently is that we had this moment when she was asking me questions about what my feelings are, what im thinking, and other personal stuff (some traits of being a connoisseur) she seems really eager to know it. she seems to act like she's really comfortable around me.

    so here's the real question for me. is she interested hence all the "feelings questions" about me and all those nice warmth greetings and smile when she sees me? or am i just being dense about all of it all and making meaningless meaning to it all?

    she`s also dropping the word `friend`` from time to time. which makes me to think that maybe she sees me as a friend regardless of how we are together.

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    Default Re: NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    You may be in the greyzone.get more on attraction.sarge other girls.whilst running game.check content of convo make sure its emotionally charged..

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    Default Re: NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    i believe you're right. i'll keep that in mind when i'm with her. thanks!

    although, what about this other guy? you think she's kinda seeing which of us is a better option?

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    Default Re: NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    I agree with HardRock on this one..pump up attraction and remember..connoisseu r like any other Investor-denier type..needs a lot of comfort but you should reveal things about yourself gradually..to them relationships are all about emotional connection..don't be bothered by the fact that she is calling you friend..she wants to connect with you..caution though..things might slip into comfort zone..just pump necessary attraction before getting to emotional connection business..cheers and goodluck

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    Default Re: NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    Vere is spot on not staying in comfort,attraction may cut through all.lost your thread.came across.running game and escalating would help shoot your efforts.

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    Default Re: NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    You know what she's with someone right now. During the time when I met her I think she already has this other guy. So I guess its time for me move on now! Thanks though. Greatly appreciate the advice. Learned a lot during the whole process.

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    Default Re: NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    It doesn't matter if she is seeing someone. Half the time guys make another of her friends into her boyfriend for no reason. Never assume until she gives you evidence!

    The rule is pursue and escalate. If she feels uncomfortable she will tell you. An ioi is always an ioi. As long as u get them you are good.

    She may be testing u by asking if you are friends. She may like you but wants to clear up how u see her becuase you aren't escalating. Check out red baron thread about framing.

    I think you have a chance but you must escalate or all hope is lost lol
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: NEED ADVICE:is she into me or is she just being friendly?

    I'll keep escalating sure. Running games as well. She does respond to these greatly. That's true ioi is always IOI.


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