Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 3 of 3
Like Tree2Likes
  • 1 Post By Jesters
  • 1 Post By cdharders

Thread: New to the game- I need advice. 3 weeks in

  1. #1
    Jesters is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 53, Level: 1
    Level completed: 6%, Points required for next Level: 47
    Overall activity: 8.3%
    Join Date
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    2
    Points
    53
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default New to the game- I need advice. 3 weeks in

    Ok, I'm thinking this is in the right spot, but I'm not even sure. I can type a sweet game, but can I actually act it? -Well... Maybe. Has it been tested? Hell no.

    I think I need to give background on this whole situation before I ask for advice. For completeness, I'd f-closed this girl, once, when she was drunk as hell and called me. The best line, which I read last night was- "Alcohol has never caused anyone to do something they didn't want to. It only enables them to do what they've always wanted but repressed."
    This toiled on my brain for numerous days, right up until I read that.

    I met this girl two weeks ago, and while I've not had a huge problem with women in the past(9), this one seemed to happen spontaneously. The reason I was at this gathering was not to meet this woman, but as far as I'm concerned, sparks flew. It's happened once before in my life, and goddamn I forgot what it felt like.

    One last very important bit- she just broke up with the only boyfriend she ever 'loved' which was three weeks ago, to the day.

    From this I can gather that I'd be a stereotypical rebound, and fit the description to a tee.

    We've been out twice since, (once since she called... which seemed distant.) The first time we went out, there was conversation from the minute I picked her up, until the minute I kissed her back at my place watching a movie. Two nights later was the call. When I said no, she said fark me. I still even said no, but there was none of that to be had. She rocked my world like nothing ever before.

    Moving forward, there has been so many texts, which have all been total shit,-I'm leaving school... I'm getting my nails done.. I'm just on my way home.. etc. but it's always been me sending the morning text. Last night she went out with her girls, I went out with the guys, and we both knew what each other was doing. I haven't sent one, and neither has she. I'm not worried, since the mentality which I remain true to is that I am the catch, which is 100% true. I am, and anyone that feels different needs to reassess their situation.

    I think the end result of this, is my emotions, which I'm pretty damn good at guarding, have been rattled, and I need advice as far as how to go about this. I have a limited group of friends, and as such, have a limited amount of females to ...induce jealousy with. for lack of better terminology. This girl and I hit it off amazing the first night, when I had no background. She has what I want, I have what she wants. How do we meet in the middle and skip the boyfriend heartbreak, and too much bullshit on my part? I just have a feeling of no reciprocation of feeling, even though it's evident that mine is there, and she damn well knows it.

    How do I keep this girl? Do I wait? Am I just a rebound? Do I continue 'small talk texting' this girl? I have a lot of questions, but these are the main ones.
    Appreciate any feedback, and I'll sarge with anyone in my area- at least for now (with my no experience..), if that's what it takes.

    If this one doesn't work, I'm full into the game. 100% committed. But in my opinion, (and hers if she was straight with me) solving this could salvage that.

    HB9, for reference.

    Cheers.

    - I may get back with more details if required. Heading out for the night now though.

  2. #2
    cdharders's Avatar
    cdharders is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,074, Level: 40
    Level completed: 62%, Points required for next Level: 76
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    Austin
    Posts
    569
    Points
    4,074
    Level
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    192

    Default Re: New to the game- I need advice. 3 weeks in

    Quote Originally Posted by Jesster View Post
    Ok, I'm thinking this is in the right spot, but I'm not even sure. I can type a sweet game, but can I actually act it? -Well... Maybe. Has it been tested? Hell no.

    I think I need to give background on this whole situation before I ask for advice. For completeness, I'd f-closed this girl, once, when she was drunk as hell and called me. The best line, which I read last night was- "Alcohol has never caused anyone to do something they didn't want to. It only enables them to do what they've always wanted but repressed."
    This toiled on my brain for numerous days, right up until I read that.

    I met this girl two weeks ago, and while I've not had a huge problem with women in the past(9), this one seemed to happen spontaneously. The reason I was at this gathering was not to meet this woman, but as far as I'm concerned, sparks flew. It's happened once before in my life, and goddamn I forgot what it felt like.

    One last very important bit- she just broke up with the only boyfriend she ever 'loved' which was three weeks ago, to the day.

    From this I can gather that I'd be a stereotypical rebound, and fit the description to a tee.

    We've been out twice since, (once since she called... which seemed distant.) The first time we went out, there was conversation from the minute I picked her up, until the minute I kissed her back at my place watching a movie. Two nights later was the call. When I said no, she said fark me. I still even said no, but there was none of that to be had. She rocked my world like nothing ever before.

    Moving forward, there has been so many texts, which have all been total shit,-I'm leaving school... I'm getting my nails done.. I'm just on my way home.. etc. but it's always been me sending the morning text. Last night she went out with her girls, I went out with the guys, and we both knew what each other was doing. I haven't sent one, and neither has she. I'm not worried, since the mentality which I remain true to is that I am the catch, which is 100% true. I am, and anyone that feels different needs to reassess their situation.

    I think the end result of this, is my emotions, which I'm pretty damn good at guarding, have been rattled, and I need advice as far as how to go about this. I have a limited group of friends, and as such, have a limited amount of females to ...induce jealousy with. for lack of better terminology. This girl and I hit it off amazing the first night, when I had no background. She has what I want, I have what she wants. How do we meet in the middle and skip the boyfriend heartbreak, and too much bullshit on my part? I just have a feeling of no reciprocation of feeling, even though it's evident that mine is there, and she damn well knows it.

    How do I keep this girl? Do I wait? Am I just a rebound? Do I continue 'small talk texting' this girl? I have a lot of questions, but these are the main ones.
    Appreciate any feedback, and I'll sarge with anyone in my area- at least for now (with my no experience..), if that's what it takes.

    If this one doesn't work, I'm full into the game. 100% committed. But in my opinion, (and hers if she was straight with me) solving this could salvage that.

    HB9, for reference.

    Cheers.

    - I may get back with more details if required. Heading out for the night now though.
    Hey man, great you decided to check out the forums for help. Sounds like she liked you that night, but things probably happened too fast. I'm not exactly sure what your texts are, but I'd recommend less is more. Sounds like you are trying to force things down the boyfriend track too quickly. I'd take a step back and not text for at least 4 days and see what happens. She obviously likes you since she slept with you, but too much texting will come across as needy and depreciate your in-person time because she can get as much of you as she needs just by sending out a text. The text is better for setting logistics to meet than anything else related to game

  3. #3
    TomInVegas's Avatar
    TomInVegas is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 991, Level: 17
    Level completed: 91%, Points required for next Level: 9
    Overall activity: 13.0%
    Achievements:
    Social500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    Las Vegas
    Posts
    129
    Points
    991
    Level
    17
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    49

    Default Re: New to the game- I need advice. 3 weeks in

    Hey Jesster,

    It's great that you are putting yourself out there to meet women and are interested to take your game to the next level. The forums have a ton of great information.


Similar Threads

  1. About 5 weeks NC , let s see what will happen
    By numa in forum How To Get Your Ex Back
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 05-13-2013, 05:23 PM
  2. HB texted me two weeks later...?
    By izayah92 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 12-30-2012, 12:29 PM
  3. Ex has a new BF 3 weeks later?
    By konman in forum How To Get Your Ex Back
    Replies: 12
    Last Thread: 10-01-2012, 02:05 PM
  4. Got GF back in 2 weeks
    By Steve31 in forum How To Get Your Ex Back
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 09-27-2011, 10:05 PM
  5. Seeing ex in 2 weeks, advice needed!
    By puaphyte in forum How To Get Your Ex Back
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 04-22-2011, 02:47 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com