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    Default Dealing with unresponsive women

    The usual, I'm sure you've heard of it? Unresponsive, cold shoulder, Hot & Cold? This is the way women are and they won't change so....best we deal with it now since it will come and fully understand what we're dealing with so I can better understand what the F is going on. I know Society thinks "Well find someone who's more receptive!" "There is girls out there who will like you don't waste your time." But the truth is there is not all women act this way. They don't respond to texts sometimes 3 days in a row. They don't respond to a text everyday for 7 days strait some days. They don't respond to emails for 6 days in a row. They don't respond to POF for months at a time but somehow find a way to read your stuff and somehow string you along without deleting you or rejecting you. I have come to accept this is perfectly natural for most women. Granted my last GF was flaky I got her to come around but some girls are like Fort Knox man, nobody is getting up in there.

    So how do you know when it is time to move on? When you are good and ready to. I have tried a period of Freeze Outs and they backfired horribly but they still work when used properly. It's cuz women are addicted to attention which makes sense since we are always usually the ones intiating everything from the approach, to the date, to the first messages, to controlling the convo. The women or targets are more like the receivers of male attention and they somehow don't get around to rejecting me but leading me on by not deleting me, not rejecting me, giving me mixed signals, acting Hot & Cold all in essence to test me. So I really don't think "Finding a new one" will change the dilema most of us myself included are in. Women are just too fickle! They don't always know what they want and sometimes they want it right away but sometimes they make you work for it. But how long is too long? Well I talked to this chick on POF for 3 months strait and thought for sure I would be so AFC to her but the minute I looked up her number on White Pages Search I called her. I left her a needy vm and she had a BF who was calling me to "get rid of me" but I called her anyway. She sh!t tested the sh!t out of me but still wanted to give me a chance. Though I crashed and burned pretty hard pretty fast she just sat there listening almost "expecting" me to be different. After all that effort over 3 months based on what I read I thought I was done for but she still thought highly enough to sit there and sh!t test me (in order to pass which I failed) didn't hang up, listened, and wanted to hear what I said which was in the end too needy. Then when I called a girl who I texted 7 days in a row who never responded I thought for sure it was over but she too listened to what I said and gave me a chance on the phone. Then there was a time when I sent a girl 14 unresponded to text messages 10 of which within 24 hours of meeting her. Done right? Not even close! She texted me and of course sh!t tested the ever living crap out of me but I broke through her sh!t test twice! We kept talking for 3 days after that what you would call "Point of No Return" "can't send more than 3 texts" blah blah blah and I still almost closed her! In the end you can never find a girl like the one you have so I think it's worth pushing it till you get an answer or a rejection. But I would never pursue a girl more than 6 months without receiving something back and I would never pursue women for long periods while I am in Season of approaching (Spring & Summer). So in the end I think you can win during clutch moments since I merely failed at these critical moments but you never know if I would have been more Alpha...


    The moral of the story? It's not over till it's over and you think 3 messages and then quit but I almost closed a girl who I messaged everyday for 3 months and SHE STILL gave me a chance. So you never know but 3-5 months may be the end of the line for online women and 1-3 months for new women from the real world. I say this because it takes longer to build rapport online. I don't really know because sometimes I give up right away you know after like a week, sometimes a month, and sometimes 3 months of being lead on! It just depends on the girl how much time I willing to invest and depends how many other girls I have to distract me. If she's my top pick then of course I will spend more time trying to get at her! If she's a 9 or 10 of course I will drag it out longer! As a side not enot every woman is this way but most women are. I have come to accept that hey maybe it's not just me? I plan on deploying the tactic of prodding along and keep plugging away for 1-3 months on a woman when I got nothing else going on and then giving up or stalling as so as I jump on another one or nexting them depending on the girl. Being rejected I will move on quickly but being lead on is difficult to figure out how to handle these women. Any suggestions as most women are this way and "finding another one" is not the answer?
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    Default Re: Dealing with unresponsive women

    Great recap of yor experiences with women. I'm not sure exactly what your question is, but I think it is "How can I keep women from flaking on me?" If that's not it, let me know.

    The best thing I can tell you is to build more attraction and they will be much more responsive in answering your messages and will be much more willing to meet up. I know this is easier said than done. I would need to know more about how you build attraction ( such as a specific interaction with a girl) to give more detailed advise.
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    Default Re: Dealing with unresponsive women

    Yeah thanks for the pointers. Just speaking in generalizations as I really don't try to focus too much on one girl. I have a few girls in my target area so I was just speaking generally as I noticed this is a common behavior among hot women. Just wondering about chicks flaking on me, going Hot & Cold when they seem into and then disappear, etc.
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    Default Re: Dealing with unresponsive women

    Holy crapper snapper. Good response TominVegas but I asked a similar question with the same concept (Why don't some girls reject us guys right away but lead us on for days, weeks, months) the response was a typical female showdown. Now I asked this on FB to a non-target HB8 who I don't like and have been friends with for a while and I really don't like therefore never asked for her number or on a date. Just like being nice to her and that's it.

    She goes AWOL to my question absolute AWOL. She says "If you don't want to be just friends F Off" trying to give me the shaft when I wasn't hitting on her seeking female advice and not interested in her to begin with. She may have sensed that I rejected her and trying to reject me instead as she may be kinda bitter. Either way I was like "You thought I was talking about you lol, that's rich". She assumed I was hitting on her when I meant nothing of the sort. Like I say I make it very clear when I like someone I told her so maybe I will use that for building attraction more often. By the way she is never this rude to guys hitting on her which I wasn't even subtly trying to so I think she is taking a bit of resentment out on me for not liking her.
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    Default Re: Dealing with unresponsive women

    maybe she is just rude to everyone. i would just laugh it off


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