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    passoabowl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Want to make it work with this girl, but how?

    Hey guys,

    So I met this girl at the club last week. We danced the whole evening and were holding hands near the end of the evening. I didnít go in for the kiss though. Set up a coffee date two days later and it was a blast. I feel that she is kinda into me too, although I am not 100% sure...

    Anyway, the problem is that two days ago, I went abroad to work until next February. Because I really like this girl and I really wanted to invest more in her, I didnít want to take advantage of the fact that I am leaving by kissing her or anything else.

    I really want to keep in touch with her, but we havenít texted each other since I left... I was wondering if I should wait for her to text me first. What do you guys think? Or if you guys have some advice, please let me know

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    justadude is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Want to make it work with this girl, but how?

    THIS IS JUST THE WAY I WOULD PLAY IT --- text her next week, but maybe some kind of random one liner. nothing that illustrates your feelings about her. just text her enough to remind her of you and show off the fact that you are in a foreign country on a work related adventure. make it VERY short (a few words), and not sweet at all. remember, if you got a text from Hemmingway while he was driving that ambulance in wartime Italy (or wherever), that text wouldnt have been anything but hasty at best. she knows this, so your text needs to come across the exact same way. and then don't text her until you come back (ok fine, MAYBE once more in January, BUT THATS IT ... and no lovey-poo "I miss you"s those WILL hard dlv you). when you get back, then take her out and show her all your cool pics and stories. and for god's sake please get into some very cool adventures while you are abroad!!! on this date I still wouldn't Kino or anything ... just sit back, relax, and be Hemmingway. if she wants to kiss you, fine. if she wants to escalate, fine. but you don't initiate anything. it'll dhv like crazy when she sees you as someone who doesn't need her at all, and has a jamming life of his own. and THEN ... by the next time you see her, do something where wine is involved, and my guess is that you two will be making out well before you get to your place.

    while you are gone, don't worry about "not expressing your interest" or whatever. its not going to keep her on hold for you or anything, and it may even hard DLV you instead. if she starts seeing someone while you are away, and that person turns out to be her LTR, then chances are she was brewing something with him longer than you know, and it was heading that way regardless of that superfun date before you left.


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