I need your help guys at this one.
I talked about this girl some on different threads. Just to catch up: she was extremely tricky, but I gamed, and f-closed her. Since then, we met like once a week, had great sex. We actually get on very well - last time was the first occasion we didn't hahev sex, we went to see a movie instead. Partly because she had her period, and partly because time and place issues. So I can imagine her as my future GF.
Last time we talked about "celebrating Christmas" because I had to travel to my hometown, and I won't be back for 2 weeks. She worried about it - what means celebrate Christmas, is it that serious etc. Soo it lead to the feared "the TALK". Unfortunately, we had it on phone...
The TALK: she mentioned before that she ended a 6 year relationship on summer and that she has commitment issues. So she was pretty much on the "let's just hang out and have sex together, but see others too" side. As for me: yeah, it's been great, but I can imagine her in a LTR, too. So, I told her that I'm in game only if we leave every option open: we'll see what's happening between us, maybe we will get together closer, maybe not. I also told her that from this point, it's kinda dumb to state anything carved in stone: let's see whats happening. But if any of us felt something differently, if any of us felt if it doesn't work out or even the opposite, she/he mentioned it to the other. She agreed on it, but I felt it a bit forced - even though I tried not to force anything at all! I feel like getting to closer to you even now, but from this point, I can accept if we stop seeing each other too. So, I don't know what to do. Eventually we agreed on the classic "we'll see" - but as I fell, she doesn't want anything more serious.
I decided to give it a try - I want to try to build a LTR, while if any other girl come to my life, welcome. So what you guys think I should do? I'm thinking of making just as many sexless programmes as much we actually have sex. Do you know any other tactic that help me get her closer to me?
Every notice and thought is welcomed - I'm quite bad at relationships, this is the point when the AFC in me gains ground.