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Thread: She says I don't call/txt enough

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    Default She says I don't call/txt enough

    My girlfriend (of several months) asked me why I don't call/txt her more often. Its not like I'm going days without responding. Sometimes a few hours. We usually send a few fun/flirty/playful txts a day. Sometimes I won't call at night, and wait till the next day. Stuff like that. I always do answer when she calls. The reason I don't call/txt that often is that she is a very busy single Mom and a school teacher, and she doesn't respond that often as it is. That's what I told her, and she recognized that and grudgingly agreed.
    Now, the general consensus is to not be overly available. Raise your value by building the image that you are a busy guy with many important things happening in your life with lots of people. Make her invest in you by trying to get your attention. So that's what I've been doing.
    Still, you have to wonder in the back of your mind, if she doesn't have your attention, she can just go to some other guy and have his instead. Which is exactly the same thing us PUAs do when the situation is reversed.
    So, how much calling/txting is too little? How much is too much? Where's the balance?

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    Default Re: She says I don't call/txt enough

    I had the same problem when I was going out with this girl last year. Mind you she was still in high school but by no means was she one of those babbling LGs who text/call/fb/whatever non stop. She had her priorities straight and she was very mature but I guess she just had ridiculously strong feelings for me so she felt the need to always be engaging me in some way. Whether it was texting me non stop, all day long or wanting to be around me every minute of the day. It got to the point where I was feeling overwhelmed because I just wanted to chill out sometimes and all I would hear is phone going off.

    My point is, this girl might be completely infatuated with you and while she recognizes that she is way too busy to be talking to you constantly throughout the day, she might still want to have some sort of contact with you. I asked my girlfriend why she needed to talk to me so much and that was the exact reason. So my advice is to just ask her why she needs to talk to you so much.

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    Default Re: She says I don't call/txt enough

    how much calling/txting is too little? How much is too much? Where's the balance?
    the answer is simple, it depends on how needy she is.
    some girls constantly want your attention, while others may want more space. use your best judgment to decide, it can be different for every girl.


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