Re: Pop the Qns and not sure what to do next
Cd has the right idea of where to go with this. However, I am feeling like there are a few more bits of information missing. If you played your moves right, she would have said yes. You know the saying they always told you in college about sex, that a no means no and a maybe means no? That's what I'm thinking here.
With that being said, can you list off some more details? Like how long have the two of you been contacting each other? How were the dates you two went on? How much was she initiating the conversations? How receptive was she to your messages, conversations, etc.? Information like this is necessary to correctly diagnose the problem here.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X