Hey guys, this starts as coffee but goes into something interesting.
Short story short, I met this girl over Tinder and we connected pretty well, both sending decently long messages with lots of ioi's held within. Most of it rapport building, talking about interests etc etc.
We set up a first date which was just a basic coffee date in the mall. Normally I wouldn't go for that, however I had a time constraint as well as it was my first time meeting her so it had to do.
Meet at the Timmy's, and for about half an hour just talked (mostly her talking about herself, which I wanted), and related to each other. To give you a feel of her personality, she's 17 in 2nd year university, Canadian born but LA raised, surf bum, relaxed, and loves to act. A good amount of rapport was built at this point, but no Kino and minimal flirting.
I suggested we walk around the mall, which allowed me to guide her by the small of her back from place to place casually. Low and behold, up comes a Sear's Home store (where they sell mattresses and furniture). An awesome idea arises:
"Hey, lets pretend we're married and just bought our first place, and see how far we can get with them believing us"
She eagerly agrees, and we started shopping for mattresses. This was awesome because it involved us laying on the beds together, and when we had to switch sides (Different firmness's), it allowed for kino and flirting. Of course roleplaying being married is great as well, she was enjoying herself.
The biggest move I made was when we had finally decided on our mattress for our new place, I said wait there's one more test to do, then I picked her up and tossed her on the bed. She was stunned at first but when I asked did that hurt she just started giggling and said no it was good.
After that, I was talking to the lady helping us and I could see her starring at my face. Once in a while I would make eye contact and hold it for a few seconds before going back to the lady.
We continued in the mall afterwards, joking around in shops, when suddenly she got a call from her mom saying she was at the mall to pick her up. At this point she had never mentioned that her mom was coming, I had no heads up at all. To test compliance to see if I had screwed up, I said sure but lets check out this one last store, to which she agreed easily.
I walk her to her car, shake hands with her mom, and they drive off. No texting that day, and the next day I initiated saying it turns out my best friend's mom is friends with the lady who helped us. From there we just chatted, but I didn't sense any positive change in her language.
I want to initiate a second date, this time Ice-skating, and do two things: Run the cube on her, and kiss close.
I'm also considering getting her to add me on facebook ( I have lots of dhv photos, etc), but I've never gone for a girl with the intent to make her a gf. Suggestions, common sticking points, and anything to help me out would be really appreciated.