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Thread: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebound!

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Reminds me of How I Met Your Mother when he tells her he loves her on the first date..

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Hard to recover from that but I'd give it one more go. Don't be desperate, don't apologise but just ask to meet her for a casual coffee...then start Kino and maybe a few subtle neg hits but don't make it obvious. If she brings up your hopeless texts say you were drunk.

    I will often say to some girls 'hi ugly' or 'hate you' in a teasing way. It works wonders.

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Hey, first of all am going to congratulate you for being so creative to even jot down your true feelings and leave them hanging there like that.she either likes it or not but then in this dynamic you have created a huge mess.
    You need to take that message back.the way you frame it is very important especially your overall vibe.coming from a guy who told a woman once he loved her in a few weeks of meeting and was still in communication i would state that you went overboard.but she doesnt hate you right now.

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Like everyone else said, it's a lost cause. If you want to keep contact, just accept that your now officially friend zoned and be that friend, but don't hope for a relationship unless it's the FAR future. With the friend thing, don't ever bring up romance between you to again. Have a legitimate friendship and since shes attractive, you can use her for dhv for being seen hanging out with her around other girls. Just don't be carrying her bags and being Mr. Romeo. Treat her as one of the guys. That's all you can get out of this.

    When I was a young blood I used to say a bunch of shit like that, looking back I just want to back hand myself for doing something so weird, but I can laugh it off now. What above I described to you, is what I did with a girl that is now one of my best friends (the possible romance was like 4 years ago when we were like 14 & 15). I even introduced her to her current boyfriend, who is one of my friends. You best believe before they got together I milked her to DHV me so much (back then it was to impress other guys to have pics with lots of pretty girls on Facebook). I'd take pictures with her, go to the mall and everything. But I absolutely will not try a romance move on her again unless we stop talking for a year or 2 and her & her boyfriend break up. I'm her "big bro". I'm stuck, a long period of no contact with them breaking up and catching up as old friends would be my only shot (which I don't have an intention on doing). If you want to be there, you can be there, otherwise just leave it alone, either way you need to find a different girl. I'm just laying out your options from personal experience.


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