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    Default Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebound!

    Me: hey last text promise, just wanted to say sorry for that creepy message and wasting your time. Good luck with everything

    Her: "Ah it's not like that, I just didn't really know what to say.. Like I like u but at the same time I've only met u once ya know? Prob thought it was moving too fast to be honest".

    She gives me mixed signals like a mofo. Out of the blue selfies, but then forgets about how we were suppose to hang out etc. she's not dumb. She's a Premed student and lives 5 hours away from me. The distance is prolly what's turning her off too. Made her laugh soo many times over text. Made out with her when we first met and she also mentioned that she has a Tinsy binsy crush me on me too.

    Planning to write something to this effect in response to her text :
    "You intrigued me to want to know you more.. Nobody really has ever done that... Didnt wanna rush things tho. Not at all. Not my style. But definitely wanted that opportunity."

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    This is the text I sent on valentines day

    "I'm going to be honest here. I never thought it would be possible to like someone as much as I like you, and I haven't even been on a date with you yet but its true... I actually really, really like you, there's not a day goes by when I don't think about and wish I lived closer so I had a chance to be with you. And it really upsets me knowing that there isn't much chance of that happening. You are seriously the most stunningly beautiful girl i've ever met, and even just texting you everyday makes me incredibly happy, and I really hope we don't stop talking. I hope some day soon I can come and see you again and give you a big hug and I'm telling you this today, because its a day to tell people your true feelings, so there you go "

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Try another girl,I don't think you can recover from this.
    Don't send a message like that ever again,though.

    Also don't take my comment the other way,I'm not putting you down,you did well.

    Read T-mal's guide in the "How to text a girl" section,it's sticky in here,you should probably see all of your mistakes in there.

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Quote Originally Posted by jm4magic View Post
    This is the text I sent on valentines day

    "I'm going to be honest here. I never thought it would be possible to like someone as much as I like you, and I haven't even been on a date with you yet but its true... I actually really, really like you, there's not a day goes by when I don't think about and wish I lived closer so I had a chance to be with you. And it really upsets me knowing that there isn't much chance of that happening. You are seriously the most stunningly beautiful girl i've ever met, and even just texting you everyday makes me incredibly happy, and I really hope we don't stop talking. I hope some day soon I can come and see you again and give you a big hug and I'm telling you this today, because its a day to tell people your true feelings, so there you go "
    oh the horror.... the terrible terrible horror

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Quote Originally Posted by jm4magic View Post
    This is the text I sent on valentines day

    "I'm going to be honest here. I never thought it would be possible to like someone as much as I like you, and I haven't even been on a date with you yet but its true... I actually really, really like you, there's not a day goes by when I don't think about and wish I lived closer so I had a chance to be with you. And it really upsets me knowing that there isn't much chance of that happening. You are seriously the most stunningly beautiful girl i've ever met, and even just texting you everyday makes me incredibly happy, and I really hope we don't stop talking. I hope some day soon I can come and see you again and give you a big hug and I'm telling you this today, because its a day to tell people your true feelings, so there you go "
    *shudders*

    MAKE IT STOP MOM!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Its possible to rebound, but it would require a. a lot of time, and b. perfect execution, and this requirement will put unnecessary stress on you to be 100% crisp in everything you say from now on.

    I agree with Raid - move on. Fixing this would take 10x the amount of time vs starting with another girl, and even then you'd have only a small probability of success. Hate to see you waste a lot of time on a lost cause.

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Quote Originally Posted by jm4magic View Post
    This is the text I sent on valentines day

    "I'm going to be honest here. I never thought it would be possible to like someone as much as I like you, and I haven't even been on a date with you yet but its true... I actually really, really like you, there's not a day goes by when I don't think about and wish I lived closer so I had a chance to be with you. And it really upsets me knowing that there isn't much chance of that happening. You are seriously the most stunningly beautiful girl i've ever met, and even just texting you everyday makes me incredibly happy, and I really hope we don't stop talking. I hope some day soon I can come and see you again and give you a big hug and I'm telling you this today, because its a day to tell people your true feelings, so there you go "
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I'm about to piss myself.
    Is this real life? There is no way you texted a girl that.

    This is it. Their is nothing you could of texted worse than this. This is awesome. HAHAHA.

    Usually i'm a firm believer in anything being recoverable, but this is impossible. Please tell me she replied, I'm dying to know what she said back.

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Quote Originally Posted by jm4magic View Post
    This is the text I sent on valentines day

    "I'm going to be honest here. I never thought it would be possible to like someone as much as I like you, and I haven't even been on a date with you yet but its true... I actually really, really like you, there's not a day goes by when I don't think about and wish I lived closer so I had a chance to be with you. And it really upsets me knowing that there isn't much chance of that happening. You are seriously the most stunningly beautiful girl i've ever met, and even just texting you everyday makes me incredibly happy, and I really hope we don't stop talking. I hope some day soon I can come and see you again and give you a big hug and I'm telling you this today, because its a day to tell people your true feelings, so there you go "
    You sent her this and she was like oh ^_^ how nice now who was that guy I was going to get with again? And starts thinking about someone else. You are too much of a nice guy at this point to spark her interest. She read it and immediately thought of someone else to free her mind from the overbearing message. Women will never jump into action at something like this and go cold. But per my texting field testing "indifference" is a quality women tend to chew on and bite on those messages right away. Practice the art of indifference but not too hardcore or you will be too apathetic. You know lighthearted stuff.

    My guess is she rejected you after this or never responded? Not good. You already lost it. Whenever you do it women go from playing hard to get to completely shutting down any possible connection. Never gush to a girl like this unless you are in love and in a committed relationship. There is too many guys that do this for it to be effective and it turns them off. Just try to act indifferent, aloof, fun, and playful. But remember never reveal your hand to her always let her be the first one to talk of love or any emotional bond you two have. That way it's her idea and she generally will be more invested to be less likely to reject you as girls love the chase too man. There's no more chase after this text, the gig is up and you played your full hand way too early and now she is going to run for the hills. It happens, learn from it and try to not be emotionally needy towards a woman of interest/target.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    Me: hey last text promise, just wanted to say sorry for that creepy message and wasting your time. Good luck with everything

    Her: "Ah it's not like that, I just didn't really know what to say.. Like I like u but at the same time I've only met u once ya know? Prob thought it was moving too fast to be honest".

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    Default Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou

    I just had a really long laugh reading this thread.

    Sorry jm but that's what you call a major desperation move.. I could see a guy saying that to his wife of 5 years to try and salvage their marriage after she has just left him. Not after 1 date with a girl, and definitely not in a text. WTH were you thinking?!

    Probably best off just walking away here. Lol. You learned something though.


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