Re: Need help with strong crush. Sent creepiest message ever. Need to rebou
You sent her this and she was like oh ^_^ how nice now who was that guy I was going to get with again? And starts thinking about someone else. You are too much of a nice guy at this point to spark her interest. She read it and immediately thought of someone else to free her mind from the overbearing message. Women will never jump into action at something like this and go cold. But per my texting field testing "indifference" is a quality women tend to chew on and bite on those messages right away. Practice the art of indifference but not too hardcore or you will be too apathetic. You know lighthearted stuff.
Originally Posted by jm4magic
My guess is she rejected you after this or never responded? Not good. You already lost it. Whenever you do it women go from playing hard to get to completely shutting down any possible connection. Never gush to a girl like this unless you are in love and in a committed relationship. There is too many guys that do this for it to be effective and it turns them off. Just try to act indifferent, aloof, fun, and playful. But remember never reveal your hand to her always let her be the first one to talk of love or any emotional bond you two have. That way it's her idea and she generally will be more invested to be less likely to reject you as girls love the chase too man. There's no more chase after this text, the gig is up and you played your full hand way too early and now she is going to run for the hills. It happens, learn from it and try to not be emotionally needy towards a woman of interest/target.
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