Re: Alpha way to end FWB?
I'm gonna give you the whole "it's not real" speech first:
A few months? Regular sex? Say hello to oxytocin! What you might be experiencing is just the honeymoon stage of your relationship with her. Plus, it sounds like you got really comfortable with her - hanging out, staying over, etc. I think you see my point here. Anyway, make absolutely sure that this is NOT what you're experiencing.
And now, say hello to my sappy side:
"Everybody gets screwed over by relationships"
Tell her to suck it up (pun intended). You're adults, for fcks sake; this high school mentality should have been long gone. Your reply: "We're smarter than that. We're not children. I want to know what's fun for you, what makes you smile, what turns you on, WHAT MAKES YOU CRAZY AND SOAKING WET, I want to know what it takes to make you laugh, I want to know everything. (taken from http://www.puaforums.com/picking-up-...%27s+bombshell)"
Ok, not as sappy as I thought, but there's nothing wrong with expressing your feelings, either. Once in a while, it's ok to show your sensitive side, but don't overdo it. I can't really tell you how to do that because when it comes to stuff like this, everyone is different. Key points: Be honest and be decisive. Don't say "I think" or "maybe;" you KNOW what you want - go get it.
As for her not seeing herself living near you in the future, don't mind it. Lots of people have these escapist ideas/fantasies. Rarely do they ever act on them.
Always leave her better than you found her.