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    puaguy45 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Really like a girl, need some help

    Hello fellas. So I'll just get right to the issue here. There is a girl I see everyday, we basically work together and I really like her. I would ask her out but there is a rule that co-workers cannot date (if we are caught we are fired). We both have about a year and a half left working here. So asking her out is pretty much out of the question, unless we are really quiet about it (probably not worth the risk). Anyways, I have a lot of time to get her to like me a lot. Is there any kind of game you use for the long term? I guess I just want to be able to really build a connection with her and get her to be crazy for me. We are already decent friends but when we are done working this gig I want her to be all over me. Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Really like a girl, need some help

    Once you chat to her tell her you want to change your job because the rule you mentioned ties up your hands! She will get what you mean!

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    Default Re: Really like a girl, need some help

    That might also be a big risk too suppose she doesn't feel the same way and you have to change jobs because things might get out. If you she's really worth the risk then go for it and good luck.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Really like a girl, need some help

    I never said you had to change jobs! You should say it in a playful way so that she understands you are interested in her. You have to ignite her attraction somehow.

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    Default Re: Really like a girl, need some help

    What a stingey place to work. Change jobs!

    In my office several couples have progressed all the way into marriage.

    If you start chatting her up over the long haul you run the risk of becoming 'just friends'. A year and a half is a long time. I would just date other girls and see where you're both at further down the line. Or act like spies and keep it a secret. It's really weighing up how much you like each other versus how much you like or need the job.

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    Default Re: Really like a girl, need some help

    Walk past her in the office and grab her ass real firm. Look back when you've gotten about 5 feet past and lick your lips. This deeply engages a woman's sexual side and she'll immediately understand that the two of you need to bang but be quiet about it.

    ...Alright, don't do that. There are about 50 factors that come into play here that we don't know about. Just because you can't date at work, doesn't mean you can't bump uglies at home. There is just one thing you have to do most in order for this to work. Attract her. That's it. Just get her attracted to you in any way shape or form. It helps you have such a long time, but really you don't need it. Chat her up one day, flirt, and banter. Then get her out for drinks. Don't ever lead it into a dating scene but more like two co-workers hanging out. When you can feel she likes you, you shift it more sexual. But do it hesitantly, whisper in her ear "I wanna take you home, but I can't afford to keep getting myself in trouble." Say it sexually, and this will only drive her crazy. Your forbidden fruit, Eve couldn't resist it, neither will she.
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Really like a girl, need some help

    Such a complicated situation here..

    I don't know you, but for me, if I really like that girl.

    I will ask her out, escalate on her and see what happen.

    If she go along, good! We will talk about being discreet and having our fun time secretly.

    If she's not then I will ask her is it about the company rules?

    My advice is you don't really know what she's thinking before you really talk to her about that.

    Stop guessing here, MAke your move first, talk later.

    All the Best
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