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Thread: help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

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    Default help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

    so ive been with this girl for three months I really liked her she was everything I wanted out of a girl I thought lol but number one she has three kids that was kinda weird for me lol but we started out great we talked everyday we seen eachother a lot then all of a sudden she just kinda faded away I guess I only talk to her once or twice a week if im lucky and I never see her she doesn't talk to me about anything its like were not even together anymore all though I will say she has a fucked up situation which why I even deal with it is beyond me she kinda just drifts place to place she doesn't have a steady place to live and I just found out she has lymphoma cancer and her ex which she just put in jail was beating the shit out of her and the kids and tell me why she was protecting him would tell me where to find that son of bitch im not about that whole woman children beatin thing not at all I feel I need to break up with her but then again she does play with my penis lol so ..... what are your guys thoughts on this any input will be helpful thanks- Temptation

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    Default Re: help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

    First and foremost - paragraphs and punctuation, please

    You have to decide for yourself whether or not she's worth trouble AND whether or not you're with her for the long haul. She's in a vulnerable state and if you're not planning on being with her in the long run, then what are you doing? Can't use a girl like just to have fun, IMO.

    Personally, I'd break things off. No need to get yourself and her dragged into trouble in a rage of testosterone.

    There are plenty of other women out there...with less kids
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

    Relationships are built on trust. If she is not being truthful then it shows a clear lack of trust. If there is no trust then I don't know if the relationship should continue. Although, part of it could be a result of her abusive relationship with her ex-husband made her more guarded.

    From the sound of it, you two seem to be drifting apart, a normal occurrence in relationships.

    My advice would be to move on.

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    Default Re: help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

    Honesty is everything. Without it you have no real reason to commit to her unless you just want to bone her and amuse her till the cancer kicks in or you spiral into full rage
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

    You need to come to a place where your energy is grounded. Quiet mediation for 10 minutes with deep breathing into your belly, and then decide if you really want that type of person in your life... Plus, there are plenty of other women who will play with your ding-a-ling. If you can get one, you can get another.

    Personally, I would never do it. A woman like that is pretty mentally unstable.

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    Default Re: help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

    So found out she was cheating on me and living with another guy so totally not with her anymore thanks guys

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    Default Re: help with my gf i think shes not being truthful what do you guys think

    Good for you. Never invest with a girl who isnt honest--its a setup for failure.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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