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    Default Need help on making unreadable hb8 into gf

    There is this HB8 that I have gone on three great dates with. During date two, we escalated to the point of sex but I held back because I saw this girl as gf material and wanted to save it for when we were finally in a relationship. On date number three I asked her for us to be "official" and instead of answering the question with a yes or no, she told me that she would answer that question after I invited her to stay the night.

    Needless to say I asked her to stay and she did. Again I teased her to the point where she thought sex would happen and then I did not do it once again (since she had not answered my question). In the morning she wanted us to take a shower together and cuddle for awhile. The next day she texted me that she "missed me already."

    Do you think that her not answering the question means that she just wants to be fark buddies or should I have asked again? Should I give up trying to make this "official" and just enjoy whatever "this" is?

    Another weird thing about us is that she texts me and then when I text her back she doesn't respond again. But when we see each others the following week in person it goes back to where we left off. I hate the fact that she doesn't text back. Is this some sort of $hit test?

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    Default Re: Need help on making unreadable hb8 into gf

    Maybe it is... Maybe its not a test. Make her chase you in your text by challenging her. Give her something to think about that is fun and light hearted. She'll be more inclunded to answer. Also try false choices like "pancakes or waffles?" Regardless of her answers be interesting and say something in response like "ok cool, looks like i know what you're making (you can choose between yourself or her in this response) for breakfast when i stay over" she'll likely be in a light hearted mood and respond in going along with it or just laughing giving you the option to change things up a bit and be flirty. After you've made her laugh you can drive the conversation pretty easily with little effort and maybe try not responding back to her and let her feel the Tension instead of it always being you.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Need help on making unreadable hb8 into gf

    First of all, Perez. It's a bad thing to not have sex with her when you had the chance. In fact, you are disrepect a woman by doing so.

    I can't figure out the reason that why you keep need a solid 'verbal' answer from her, she's already make it so clear to you, dumbass (excuse my expression; no offence though).

    Well even she only want you as a f buddy for now, it's ok. You are still have a great chance to proceed to a relationship with her, better than you don't have sex with her & tease her right there.

    Besides, if you don't like her not replying your msg, ask her about that, maybe she have a reason why she's doing so, you don't know, you have to communicate with her about that.

    Have sex with her dude. If not I am willing to do the job. Lol.

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    Default Re: Need help on making unreadable hb8 into gf

    Why do you need to put a label on the relationship ?????
    Do you enjoy being with her, does she make you happy, do you have fun together, ??? If it's YES, Then keep doing what you are doing and F@ck being official
    ..... as far as the no sex .... that is a little game I have used several times, I will get a girl in bed it get's hot and suddenly I'll tell her I don’t think we should have sex ..... IT DRIVES THEM CRAZY, because they are thinking why doesn’t he want to have sex with me and it will get to a point where she will do anything to have sex with you and that’s when you close the deal .... LOL

    By the way, cuddling in the shower is AWESOME ... I highly recommend it

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    Default Re: Need help on making unreadable hb8 into gf

    Thanks guys! You were right about the texting. I brought it up casually by poking fun at her and it has improved. I also made sure to F-close when we hung out on Monday. Yesterday she called me and said she wanted to come over again, and again we farked. She seems to really enjoy our time together. Even at work she was being more flirty than usually and telling me that she wished we could hang out again today.

    Like you said, I am just going to forget about the label and enjoy what we have.

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    Default Re: Need help on making unreadable hb8 into gf

    Good to hear that man.

    You are being like a man now. Haha


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