No no. She didn't leave my bday and post pictures of him and her that night. I would've been super pissed. She left early but didn't post anything of him and her. No, I'm not new to PUA. I was really heavy into it when I was 23 and did it for a while then eventually got out of it. I have read the book "the game" and "mystery methods" I have done the Kino etc and learned about stacking and pivots etc. I am just now gettinf back into it. 27 now.
Yeah I think another reason she is leaning toward him is because his personality. Her ex bfs are urban (ghetto-ish) and he is similar to them. Also I believe I am not coming off alpha enough. I need to be more assertive. I agree I need to pick up the books again and get back into it hardcore. Went out last night wit a couple chicks. So trying to get my mind off of her and focus on reinventing myself as more alpha when or if she comes out with me again. I'm not going to ghoul over her and be sad though. What do you mean by passive value???