I'm now in a relationship... my very first and here is the background:
Became friends with her back in April and after a while we started dating around once a week or so. As of about 1 week ago we are in an official relationship. We kiss a lot and have some intimacy/Kino but no sex as of yet - she is afraid of getting pregnant and is awaiting a doctors appointment to go on the pill/implant/contraceptive. I am taking her to away on holidays for a weekend to the beach and will be staying in a nice hotel. We have talked about sex and the idea is for her to have the contraceptive sorted for us going away.
Since the location will be romantic and at the beach, and since we have dated for months and will also be in a relationship for 1 month by the time we head away, I was thinking of saying the L word then. I'm assuming I should say it before we have sex for the first time with each other? Was thinking of saying it on the beach after we kiss on the first day/evening that we are there.
Is this a good idea? Any advice?