OK not exactly something you expect on the PUA forum, I know, I apologize for the how long this is but.....I know I can trust my PUA brothers and your helpful advice.
So my girlfriend she's 26 and I'm 31 we have been dating for a few months.
We were together for a month or so and we ended up breaking up she said I was to nice to her which I was at times but I was also trying to just be a caring and nice guy, So I lost my cocky funny personality at times, my ability just not care what she was doing and I stopped enjoying doing things for myself.
Well in that time we were together she got pregnant...Yes it's mine.
She went from being her sweet and nice self when we first got back together after we agreed to keep the baby and make it work between us again (we were only broke up for a couple weeks)
But now the hormones have kicked in and now she is saying the same things she was before we broke up the first time
Last night she told me I know annoy her and she hates how nice and sweet I am and she want's me to not be so caring and stop being there for her all the time.....Not easy to do when your going to have a baby with a her.
Well everything I have read Pregnancy wise tells me to be patient wait out the storm just be caring and be there for her.
I tried tell her that last night and she told me to stop being like that and stop being so nice and that it annoys her how nice I am to her and how caring I am to her.
She has dated a lot of asshole guys in the past and most of them have cheated on her so I know there is a lot insecurities within her.
So this is were I really need your ADVICE!!!
I am not typically The nice guy push over type but for whatever reason this girl makes me feel like a AFC and it drives me crazy cause I know how I should act and react but instead I'm this insecure and sensitive guy around her.
I feel like I can't even be myself anymore,. I lose my confidence in myself and who I am around her. I hate that feeling, I hate not being the man and being able to control my emotions and the situation.
So here is where I am right now.
This morning after our huge fight last night she grabbed me and wouldn't let go than kissed me this morning before I left for work.
I told her I was going to stay at my place today.
Honestly though I don't know if I even want to see her for awhile after all the shit she is saying to me last night. I am really confused on who I should be and act around her anymore.
Please Guys I need your advice and help through these tough times.