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Thread: Unique situation, need guidance on getting gf

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    Default Unique situation, need guidance on getting gf

    About a month and a half ago I started dating a fellow temp. coworker. In total we went on about 12 dates, we had sex in every imaginable place, I even invited her on a weekend trip out of state. She told me that I was the best sex partner she ever had, that she really cared about me, and even introduced me to her cousins.

    I ended my temp. job and went on vacation. We have been keeping in contact, although its been about every 3 or 4 days since I am out of the country. Her text messages do seem to be less "romantic" than they perviously were.

    However, when I arrive back to the states, she will not be there as she is studying abroad in Ecuador for the entire year. I did promise her that I would visit her in December.

    I sense that I may be getting oneitis, and I've already tried seeing other girls. However, I can't seem to stop thinking about this chick.

    I didn't ask her to be my gf because I thought it would be stupid to do such a thing (LTR) knowing she was going to be in Ecuador for a year. Yet, I am know thinking that when we do our first skype session I should ask her where she sees us going? Any advice of whether to ask her or wait till I see her in person again? I also don't know how to proceed with the texting/skype sessions since I am worried they will get boring since we won't be having sex or physically interacting.

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Unique situation, need guidance on getting gf

    12 dates.. It sounds like a relationship.

    Oneitis is only the case if you put her on a platform where she hold the power. To me it doesnt sound like its the case unless you're missing out on some details. You're probably falling for her. Which is something you need ro figure out. If its not meant to be serious then see if she's work a plane ride across the country for...

    Continue seeing other women in the mean time until you've figured out what you are an what you want
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Unique situation, need guidance on getting gf

    I don't think you needed to ask her to be your gf given after 12 dates, that seems to be unspoken.

    If you are serious about this relationship, and you think it is worth having, that personally, I would advise you to keep your promise, and see her in December. I am sure you have plenty to talk about in the Skype sessions. It is almost like one of your dates minus the physical contact. If you could keep the conversation going on dates than Skype shouldn't be a problem.


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