I am quite inexperienced with LTR's. I've always had problem with allowing my feelings to progress too much. You risk a lot and nothing is ever perfect. As a guy I have always flirted with women. But I also had the idea that my lady should be contained in that aspect. Not just during the present time but in the past as well. So I am seeking advice from you.
My partner is a beautiful lady, really over the charts. Her personality suits me and vice-versa, I know how we both can't envison life without each other anymore. Back in the days she never really had any serious relationships, mostly friends with benefits. While I can't say I've been any different it annoys me knowing of her past. She'd always be willing to flirt back then. Nowadays she literally stopped to an extent that the circle of people that talk to her is reduced to me, family members and some female friends (i know this for a fact).
The past still haunts me a bit. It can be a tad of insecurity alongside with inexperience in a LTR. I'm reaching that point of no return in which I love her to bits and getting stabbed in the heart would be too painful.
Always had a positive approach to life and that's what led to her fully committing to me. But I can't say I am not afraid or insecure.
Do you think all these worries and bad vibes are unfounded? Anyone with similar experience and/or good advice can enlighten me to how I should deal with her past?
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