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    Default How do you know she's your GF?

    Stupid question but a serious one. Have a girl and we hung out for 2 days or equal to 2 dates. Spent the night at her place and she was with me and even around her guy friends she was clearly all over me. The guy she said "she thinks she likes was there" but she was all over me in front of him and clearly not doing that to him. Then she said he doesn't want a GF and said "do you want it?" I said yeah sure. She said we are going on vacation together without even asking if I wanted to. We have concerts tickets to go together.

    Also she is usually chasing me. But I don't know if she is my "GF" cuz she likes this other guy but then she said she broke up with him? Either way women always do that but I don't really think she considers me her BF but we have a date set up for next weekend so I know she seems pretty committed but I don't know what she would think if I hit on her friends like cuz we are "together" so basically she can hang out with other dudes but I know if I invited her friend to hang out she would be pissed and probably break up with me. So at what point are you GF and BF or does it not matter? Since clearly she is not crazy about me or she would have made it exclusive.
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    Default Re: How do you know she's your GF?

    Be patient there is always a possibility she is. But even aspiring puas like me could create attraction and comfort. Follow what mystery method basically says you're not boy & girlfriend until you've done it a few times

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    Default Re: How do you know she's your GF?

    She's not your girlfriend until you've had "that talk".

    And the best time to have it, is when you're both in a high state & things are clicking; because girls make decisions based on their current emotions.

    If she's emotionally elated, she's waaaaay more likely to be agreeable & compliant, rather than if she's just feeling mediocre.


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    Default Re: How do you know she's your GF?

    Quote Originally Posted by greatness View Post
    Be patient there is always a possibility she is. But even aspiring puas like me could create attraction and comfort. Follow what mystery method basically says you're not boy & girlfriend until you've done it a few times
    Yeah I came to that conclusion recently that doing it creates a bond and more likely to make her my GF. Also I don't consider myself non-single until I am definitely sleeping with someone. I made this discovery sometime shortly after posting this. So if I am not getting laid by a particular girl then I definitely consider myself single. Also I am not having the talk with anyone due to being a PUA so if they have "the talk" with me then I am gonna bring up the sex thing.
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    Default Re: How do you know she's your GF?

    In today's society, to categorize human relationships as ''relationships'', is a lack of esteem somehow, a lack of communication and a lack of understanding who we are, all mixed together! I will ask you something here : what's a COUPLE for you?

    Because it is is proven by scientific research ( if you read SpermWars, you'll know ) that most of the human beings in relationships cheat on their partners...

    Anyway, personally, I 've never been in a relationship and I never will be. Why ? Because I 'd rather be CONNECTED with humans around. I did have girls (so many) that I felt love and passion for, so did they for me. But, I prefer to be CONNECTED with people around me. And to categorize a girl as your girlfriend is just the names and labels we give to "test" the relationships you are experiencing. Actually, I don't have a girlfriend. I am connected with the most beautiful woman on this earth, which is I know my soulmate and angel. I call her my shooting star, not my girlfriend!

    The thing is that we understand that being a couple is not set in stone , and that relationships change because our DEGREE OF CONNECTION to other changes all the time, because relationships change all the time, due to various factors such as your values ​​(which also change constantly), your steps in your life compared to your dreams (which change for those who have dreams and grow to reach them ), etc.

    And THAT'S true: many people try to find their partner in order to only settle for a ''relationship'' before even learning to grow and evolve towards THEIR dreams. And it never works or we understand nothing of that kind of relationship, because we get lost ... Well , I'll tell you one thing ...

    On our way towards our goals, this is where we meet the key people in our lives. Finding a life partner happens by itself, because according to our desires and dreams, life brings us the right people, and we know and feel it when this occurs.

    Why are people lost in relationships these days? Well ... it's easy ...

    We are disconnected from ourselves , our dreams , our ambitions ...

    We think it's the next person you meet that will bring us happiness or otherwise.

    The truth is that happiness is the path itself to our dreams , the adventure and discovery of ourselves. And the relations we have with people around us, and especially that one special person we want to share our life with, are constantly IN RELATIONSHIP, not just categorized as actual ''relationships ' or being ''single" : those are the people with whom we SHARE our desires and emotions ...

    So, a girlfriend or a boyfriend is someone who allows you to develop you, who listens to you, that really is CONNECTED to your dreams and desires as much as you are for him or her, and that makes you move towards your dreams, encouraging you ... This is not someone with whom you're "in a relationship" or "not" ... You shouldn't categorize this!

    I think that this is time for society, our generation, to reconnect with our goals and our mission in life! This is how we realize ourselves and create the world around us, including you know, so called "relationships" ...

    And that, my friend, is valid for both men and women, no matter the age, the physical appearance, the maturity, life experience, etc.

    So, here's my advise to you : if you feel like that girl is the one that can develop you and elevate you, you'll want to naturally be with her and life circumstances are going to change around you so both of you get to connect even more with each other. My advise is this : ask yourself what do you really want out of life, and from there, the right people are going to come in to your life, I promise...
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    Default Re: How do you know she's your GF?

    Remember a couple threads ago when I told you that you take everything too fast?
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How do you know she's your GF?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Remember a couple threads ago when I told you that you take everything too fast?
    Not exactly refresh my memory. I have been working on this girl for two months that is slow enough and I am ready to give up...
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SocialConnection Coach View Post
    In today's society, to categorize human relationships as ''relationships'', is a lack of esteem somehow, a lack of communication and a lack of understanding who we are, all mixed together! I will ask you something here : what's a COUPLE for you?

    Because it is is proven by scientific research ( if you read SpermWars, you'll know ) that most of the human beings in relationships cheat on their partners...

    Anyway, personally, I 've never been in a relationship and I never will be. Why ? Because I 'd rather be CONNECTED with humans around. I did have girls (so many) that I felt love and passion for, so did they for me. But, I prefer to be CONNECTED with people around me. And to categorize a girl as your girlfriend is just the names and labels we give to "test" the relationships you are experiencing. Actually, I don't have a girlfriend. I am connected with the most beautiful woman on this earth, which is I know my soulmate and angel. I call her my shooting star, not my girlfriend!

    The thing is that we understand that being a couple is not set in stone , and that relationships change because our DEGREE OF CONNECTION to other changes all the time, because relationships change all the time, due to various factors such as your values ​​(which also change constantly), your steps in your life compared to your dreams (which change for those who have dreams and grow to reach them ), etc.

    And THAT'S true: many people try to find their partner in order to only settle for a ''relationship'' before even learning to grow and evolve towards THEIR dreams. And it never works or we understand nothing of that kind of relationship, because we get lost ... Well , I'll tell you one thing ...

    On our way towards our goals, this is where we meet the key people in our lives. Finding a life partner happens by itself, because according to our desires and dreams, life brings us the right people, and we know and feel it when this occurs.

    Why are people lost in relationships these days? Well ... it's easy ...

    We are disconnected from ourselves , our dreams , our ambitions ...

    We think it's the next person you meet that will bring us happiness or otherwise.

    The truth is that happiness is the path itself to our dreams , the adventure and discovery of ourselves. And the relations we have with people around us, and especially that one special person we want to share our life with, are constantly IN RELATIONSHIP, not just categorized as actual ''relationships ' or being ''single" : those are the people with whom we SHARE our desires and emotions ...

    So, a girlfriend or a boyfriend is someone who allows you to develop you, who listens to you, that really is CONNECTED to your dreams and desires as much as you are for him or her, and that makes you move towards your dreams, encouraging you ... This is not someone with whom you're "in a relationship" or "not" ... You shouldn't categorize this!

    I think that this is time for society, our generation, to reconnect with our goals and our mission in life! This is how we realize ourselves and create the world around us, including you know, so called "relationships" ...

    And that, my friend, is valid for both men and women, no matter the age, the physical appearance, the maturity, life experience, etc.

    So, here's my advise to you : if you feel like that girl is the one that can develop you and elevate you, you'll want to naturally be with her and life circumstances are going to change around you so both of you get to connect even more with each other. My advise is this : ask yourself what do you really want out of life, and from there, the right people are going to come in to your life, I promise...
    Well I can get behind all this, but titles are important. Women, at least for a variable amount of time, want monogamy, especially when it comes to having children and that requires some form of formal claim on your genes. That usually in all cultures requires some form of formal, if not legal, agreement to engage in exclusivity.

    I don't believe all women cheat. I know for sure I have never been cheated on. Very few women, no matter how devious, are good enough to avoid the obvious emotional tells that come with being sexed by another man outside a committed relationship. Any "in tune" guy would know within a week or so if his woman is cheating. Most guys are just dumb and not in tune, or deny their instincts to avoid the pain.

    Nope. I'm pretty sure women rarely cheat on attentive alpha males. They may grow over time to despise them. May plot to leave them for various frivilous reasons, but very rarely leave for another man unless the husband/boyfriend does some awful beta shit over a medium period of time.

    Boyfriend/Girlfriend, Husband/Wife.. these titles are important at least to women. Our duty to ourselves is to ensure only those of the.best quality, and most loyal, earn those titles through actions.

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    Default Re: How do you know she's your GF?

    It's Fall and you know what that means..Summer is over so I am no longer out sarging. Oh well I wasted most my Summer on getting tattooed so next Summer should be better? Dunno looks like getting a lot of tattoos next year too but we are almost done! But it should be easier for multiple reasons! This was an expensive year but I think I will better manage next year.

    Still running on old steam. 2 girl rotation but I was so close to a 3-4 rotation 3 weeks ago but I lost control of girl #2 due to unforeseen circumstances. So my life really sucks right now but looking forward to next Summer which I should be more prepared for! Only 25 approaches this year due to all the success but now next year I am hunting big game 10's. So getting lots of concert tickets for dates, season passes to amusement parks, and of course quite possibly the Pool Parties along with my Night Game. So hopefully next time I will spend less time dating fluzzies and more time banging 9's and 10's. Not sure but when I get on a roll again 4-5 girl rotation (had a 3 girl rotation this year) dunno if I should befriend them all on FB cuz if I do they will find out about each other and wouldn't that be crippling? Who knows but my goal is not a GF but bagging 9's and 10's.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    Well I can get behind all this, but titles are important. Women, at least for a variable amount of time, want monogamy, especially when it comes to having children and that requires some form of formal claim on your genes. That usually in all cultures requires some form of formal, if not legal, agreement to engage in exclusivity.

    I don't believe all women cheat. I know for sure I have never been cheated on. Very few women, no matter how devious, are good enough to avoid the obvious emotional tells that come with being sexed by another man outside a committed relationship. Any "in tune" guy would know within a week or so if his woman is cheating. Most guys are just dumb and not in tune, or deny their instincts to avoid the pain.

    Nope. I'm pretty sure women rarely cheat on attentive alpha males. They may grow over time to despise them. May plot to leave them for various frivilous reasons, but very rarely leave for another man unless the husband/boyfriend does some awful beta shit over a medium period of time.

    Boyfriend/Girlfriend, Husband/Wife.. these titles are important at least to women. Our duty to ourselves is to ensure only those of the.best quality, and most loyal, earn those titles through actions.
    TOTALLY TOTALLY agree with you!

    My point was only that to FIND that one girl that really connects with your deepest desires and your deepest self, it requires at first hand that yourself make the work on developing yourself to not only your polished self, but also towards your dreams and goals...

    And once you do that, sure, you'll be an Alpha male and therefore, you will have the EXACT woman that you were meant to be with in your life : cheating will then, to you, only be an illusion because you will be not only in tuned, but a fully focused alpha male, just like you said, that your woman will love you no matter what!

    Those titles are important, for sure, but they are misinterpreted in our society and in our human relationships as a species!

    In other words, there is no way your woman cheats on you if you are living your life the Way of the Superior Man, which is the most complete and AMAZING book on what it means to be a Man and to connect with your deepest wishes and the world around you, and your woman, of course! I will send you a copy in PM!

    SO interesting I can't stop reading!
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