I'm not really looking for a step by step here, just maybe some casual advice on things to keep in mind or scripts to run for my meetup with this girl in a week.
Just bare with me here - there's a bit of background to cover...
First of all, I've known this girl for four years. Three of which, she's been dating a sporting rival turned mate of mine. In fact, they only broke up two months ago.. I've been talking to her ever since but have only seen her once due to school-work (she's finishing her final year and is an A student). There's always been a bit of chemistry between us, but neither of us acted on it as she was dating my mate. After her breakup is the closest we've ever been.
She came to me, I helped her through the breakup and I've been there for her while she's been stressing over her exams. Her ex, to be blunt, is being a dick.. and ive helped her through that as well. I know, I know... great way to get yourself friendzoned Nikko -.- Doesn't matter - I'd do it again.
I'm taking her ice-skating in a week. We've been pretty flirty over the last two weeks. I've told her that she needs to tell me if I'm being too forward because I don't want to put her in an awkward position. She LJBF-ed.. kinda. When she asked me what I wanted, I told her that I wanted to find out whether we could be more than friends. She's responded by saying that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship but, she's willing to see where things go and that we 'possibly' might have a thing - she just doesnt want to lose me.
A couple of days later, she brought it up and asked if I had feelings for her. I told her the truth. That I think of her as a friend that has potential - and I want to play it by ear. It's hard to have feelings for someone who you hardly see.. but who knows?
So yeah, there you have it! Iceskating.. next weekend, with a girl who I may or may not have feelings for who 'doesn't know' how she feels about me, only that she never wants to lose me. Any tips would be awesome! Im happy to just stay friends but, she really is an awesome girl and its bad ju-ju to pass on an opportunity to be woth a girl with some serious potential.