Hey guys,

I'm going to summarize a story to reduce the readings. I have been dating this girl for almost 4 months now, not exclusive. In this time, I have stopped seeing other girls, and she has stopped seeing other guys (as she says). We live 1 hour away from each other and see each other once a week. We talked about a relaitonship with each other to be exclusive, and she said... "I really like you, and I haven't felt this way in a long time, but I'm scared. From the past relationships, trust, seeing all my friends are getting engaged having children.. and I'm just scared of another bad relationship in the works...."

I saw her again a week later, dinner, movie and slept over. And since that time, things have changed.. she doesn't initiate texts anymore. and her responses have changed.

Are there ways to re-spark a relationship? Are there ways to show her I am the real deal to be exclusive with? What are some ways to get around this? Are there a specific date I can take her on to show her I really feel she's all Im looking for?