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    Default How to handle bad vibe after first date?

    Met this girl at a singles event this past Saturday, we talked all night, stayed late and had food - seemed into it. Got number but did not try to f-close (wish I tried though I did not think she was the type)

    So talk to her Monday and we make plans to go out Tuesday - we go out for dinner, drinks etc, talking for awhile. I sensed she was not into it for a few reasons
    • During the date she was telling me how she dated a guy for many years, and was heartbroken and needs to focus on herself now
    • After date I asked if she still wanted to hang out (it was around 10pm on a work night) and she said another night
    • Given that we both had drinks I asked her to call me when she got home safe, she did text but it seemed finite. "Made it home. Thanks for dinner. Have a goodnight" - I did not respond...


    Though I think my intuition is on target, I could be wrong so I do want to make another attempt before moving on. Thoughts on what next move should be?

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    Default Re: How to handle bad vibe after first date?

    She does not seem too into it. But it could be anything. It doesn't have to be you. But if it is then it's hard to tell what the deal is. Best to ignore them and behave as if you're assuming attraction. And try not to read into everything. You run the risk of it conveying in your behavior if you were to assume that she wasn't into you while you were physically spending time together.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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