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    Default Need help with a perfect 10

    Hey guys I moved to a big city and organized a party with all the people I know in this new city that come from the city I was born in. At this party I met this 10...we had seen each other before but she was just an acquaintance of mine (not a friend). This club was far from my house so she (who lives with 2 roommates) told me to go sleeping to her house. I thought I was gonna end up sleeping on the sofa, but she invited me to sleep with her...we had fun (everything apart from sex) and said goodbye to each other the day after with a long kiss. Moreover, she suggested "we should have lunch or go to the movies in the future". After 4 days (during which we texted each other) we met again, held hands and exchanged some really passionate kisses (nothing sexual sadly). Then after 2 days of texting we met again at a party where a lot of mutual friends (including a girl I had a sort of a "story" with) were present...she was cold though (apart from some long eye contacts), so I thought she didn't want to let all the people know (including the girl I had a story with, who is one of her friends) what happened between us...it was ok for me, I didn't get mad and didn't tell her anything that could have let her think I was it. The only thing I noticed from her is that she asked me to use my cellphone...but I caught her looking at the texts I sent to another girl!...when she noticed I was staring at her she told me (smiling) "oooh Eleonore (it's the name of the girl I was texting with)". She was probably jealous.

    I didn't text her the day after in order not to seem needy. I sent her some messages yesterday and she seemed interested (responded with fun long texts after 30 seconds)...but when I asked her to go to the movies she said "it's my aunt's birthday...I'll let you know"...now it's been 24 hours and she didn't!

    Haven't contacted or seen her since that message (24 hours ago)...I'm not mad but I don't want to seem needy!

    What should I do?

    P.S. I'm not sure if she is still with his bf or not, since she broke up with him when (2 months ago) he decided to move to another continent for a year...she told me she is not interested in him anymore (her eyes seemed to say another thing though)
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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    DUKE: A duke can either be a monarch ruling over a duchy or a member of the nobility, historically of highest rank below the monarch

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    Well, 24 hrs is not much. I would suggest you to wait a bit longer, a day or 2. If she will not contact you then you can text her with some typical message, such: hey, how are you? How it was at your aunt's party? Even though I must say that I don't like the fact that she was looking at your messages. I mean it is not like you are in some serious relationship and your messages are your private thing..hm..

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    The date is supposed to be in 4 hours...so I think she will NOT "let me know"...

    The "text-spying" thing didn't bother me...It showed me she was jealous...which can be seen as a positive thing
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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    DUKE: A duke can either be a monarch ruling over a duchy or a member of the nobility, historically of highest rank below the monarch

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    PUA RULE # 462 ........ NEVER EVER text a girl "how are you" unless you want to be just like all the other knuckleheads that text her
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    She did not "let me know"...what should I do? Text her tomorrow with a funny text? Not text her at all for a few days (Freeze Out)?

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    Freeze her out for like 10 days ...... then text her with some random stuff but don't ask her out

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    Man 10 days are a looong time...she is a 10, she could have 30 new boys in 10 days...I think I should seize the moment (since in the last 10 days we slept together once and kissed many times). I don't want to be needy but I don't even want to lose her.

    Some friends of mine convinced me she was probably busy (I remember she told me something about her aunt a few days ago but can't really remember what) and the "I'll let you know" was just a sort of a shit test...they told me I should ask her out again in a couple of days (since given past experiences I think she enjoys being with me)

    What do you think?
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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    DUKE: A duke can either be a monarch ruling over a duchy or a member of the nobility, historically of highest rank below the monarch

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    Don't you have any advice you can give me?

    Would be really appreciated!
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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    DUKE: A duke can either be a monarch ruling over a duchy or a member of the nobility, historically of highest rank below the monarch

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    Haven't contacted or seen her since that message (24 hours ago)...I'm not mad but I don't want to seem needy!

    What should I do?
    here's an idea, have some patience!

    24 hours doesn't mean sh!t. 24 days does.

    it may or may not have been a legit excuse and it really doesn't matter. how you handle it does.

    i would just wait a day or two and text her some good stuff to get her back in the mood (and no that's not a Freeze Out, I call it patience)


    Freeze her out for like 10 days ......
    its not a freeze out if you talk to her again within a month!

    people use that term way too loosely. a real freeze out is about putting some real distance between you and a girl so you can get a real chance at making another impression later on after you have improved yourself a great deal. (witch takes months not days) the only circumstance you really need that tool for is to right wrongs you've made (like getting friend zoned) and to take ex girlfriends off your mind so you can get back to pursuing other women.


    duca, you don't need a freeze out. you just need patience and persistence.

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    Default Re: Need help with a perfect 10

    I just found out tonight (today she texted me back with cold messages) she was kissing a friend of mine (even though I can't call him friend anymore)

    Given (this and) past experiences I reached this conclusion:

    -It doesn't matter how good is your game, how attractive you are or what she says or does for you...every girl is unpredictable...men are rational, women are emotional. You can't trust them it's in their DNAs...they are always searching for something more, something different. It's not our fault...they are b**ches by nature-

    What do you think
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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    DUKE: A duke can either be a monarch ruling over a duchy or a member of the nobility, historically of highest rank below the monarch


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