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Thread: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

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    Wink I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Here's the thing. I have a friend who sent me to the friendzone ...

    Everything was fine, even we said that we like each other and possibly have in the future a very nice and strong relationship if we are going to know each other.


    ...until I ruin it.


    Just because for my insecurity and lack of building rapport, also I forget to Kino, I committed this mistake, the situation was too uncomfortable for both.


    I pulled away for 6 months. and now I have returned. and now it seems that everything works really well. The last time we met and we talked for about 30 minutes and there is good response from kino and apparently she still feels attraction towards me.


    The issue is this, She is extremely shy and antisocial. She connects whatsapp maximum once a week. and we have no contact, I usually call every two weeks and her response is great.


    Now, I built rapport, I have a slight kino... but I' want to go to the next level. I want to make her my girlfriend.


    But I have fear. because it is too shy and like her the last time she said "I have fear that we stop being friends".

    right now, she does not know what I feel, I'm sure she thinks I just want a friendship because I am not as "heavy" as before and I do not show Her that I pretend something else.

    Characteristics of the situation:
    -she Doesn't Appear so much in whatsapp
    -she Is very shy (but she tries to prove otherwise through me)
    -I See her two times a month



    What do you recommend?




    I build kino until the kiss? How I build rapport as if she never connects? Help me please!

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    Default Re: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Get her number next time talk to her on whatsapp so you can talk to her whenver and set up a time to see her. Start escalating early and small and build up to the kiss.
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    Default Re: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Thanks Bro! Excellent Advice. I will do that

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    Default Re: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Why do you see her twice a month? Are you taking the same class? Work?

    I'd say ask her to hangout after you see her for drinks, if it's too early ask her out for coffee to catch up. If you two are friends I'm sure she'll have no problem with that. Build Kino on that and ask for her number in person if you can. You'll look 100x more confident.

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    Default Re: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Agree with the above. Just want to add, this girl doesn't want a relationship for whatever reason. It's good that you are not making her feel that you don't want one either, but she is still a girl with a vagina that wants to have sex. So stop being needy and stop thinking about relationships, think about having fun with your life just escalate to fuck her. That doesn't mean fuck her and throw her away just have fun.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Thanks man! Its my friend. We met because she bought me some music discs. We are not classmates or work. In fact this just in school (she is only 18, Iam 23 years old)

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    Default Re: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Quite Right! She does not want a relationship. She says she is afraid. But And I do not think I can fuck her haha. When I'm with her at the mall alone for a 3 hours , her parents always come to take her home

    PD: I love her.

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    Default Re: I WANT TO CLOSE THE DEAL.. What do you say? Please help me!

    Hey Guys! I have news I have her number!


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