In the 2-3 years since I started studying PU, results have been great!
Out of that success I have dated 3 girls that have had LTR potential, admittedly the second was during a lull in numbers so there was a small amount of one-itis contributing but I think that affected the break up more than anything.
HB1: Used some basic pick up methods at a mates party, was still really new to the game and very much AFC. Basically I hung around for 3 months, didn't have a lot going on in my life so became pretty dependant and way too available, she ended it with "don't know what I'm looking for", I was heart broken.. blah blah blah lol
HB2: Fast forward just over a year; Picked her up at my gym's Christmas party with some seriously tight game!! Smoking hot, we got along like a house on fire, sex was amazing and regular, we hit the magic 3 month mark and everything turned upside down. It ended in a drunken fight because she was waiting for me to bring the topic up of us becoming something serious, while I was just enjoying the ride and waiting for her to bring it up. We never recovered from the fight and we ended a few weeks later.
Latest (and current) HB: Met this one online last year, single mum, went on a date then back to her place and f-closed (around July last year), kept up basic contact since then and in early Jan this year, went to her house to help her look for a new car, we were laying in her bed just talking and unintentionally f-closed, spent the next 3 weekends together and have been seeing each other since.
This one's just hit the same magic mark as the last two! 3 months in and it's all going pear shaped. she's saying that I deserve better than her and I need to stop talking to her because she comes with too much baggage.
So my dilemma is this: Every time my relationships start to get a little more serious and close to being something, they fall to sh1t!!
I'm at a stage where I want to get serious and settle down with someone, so while I know there's plenty of girls out there, I'm not interested in jumping from one fling to the next for the rest of my life.
Is there a transition process to move into that next stage of dating? Or is this all just one big crazy coincidence?!