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    Tomynho is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Number-closed, but...

    Hey guys,

    I was at a pub the other day with my female wing - just to watch ice hockey - and she invited a new friend - we already knew each other, because we go to the gym and we'd spoken before a few times.
    He also came along with his girlfriend.

    I was mainly paying attention to ice hockey, I was in a confident/comfortable position on the couch (taking up quite a lot of space).
    My wing was talking to the guy (she'd met him 4 days before) and a few minutes later, she texted me (she was right in front of me, but obviously couldn't say it out loud) saying "I want to do this guy", to which I responded "I want to do this girl - HB9".

    The guy's girlfriend was sitting right next to me, but she kept looking at me every now and then. A few minutes later, she took advantage of the first opportunity to talk to me (I think it was a scored goal or something ).
    For about a minute or so, I was talking to her over the shoulder, paying more attention to the TV screen than her - I genuinely wasn't that interested. Then she switched the topics and started to ask questions about me - how old I am, what my plans are, etc. and she started to tell me more about herself.
    I plainly told her I think she looks great, she thanked me and giggled and kept talking about herself some more. Then we started to talk about working out (as I said, we go to the same gym) and I showed her a picture of me before losing about 50lbs - it was a picture of me + HB7 (pre-selection). Then my wing suggested that I "show everyone more pictures", so I pulled out a picture of me and my wing, which sort of resembles a scene from the 50 shades of grey (of course, HB9 had no idea what kind of relationship I was in with my wing ).

    A few minutes later, her boyfriend went to the toilet, so I told her to text me and handed her my number. Then we all (4) went out together; again, it was the same scenario - my wing was talking to the guy, I was talking to her, but I wasn't paying too much attention to her; I kept teasing my wing (as I said, a girl ) and I would interact with the two (my wing and the guy) every now and then.

    Anyway, HB9 attempted to reinitiate the conversation with me a few times and when I went quiet yet again and started to talk to my wing and the guy again, she texted me. Shortly after that, we went home (me + my wing, HB9 + her boyfriend).

    I could just feel the energy from her, but I'm not sure what to do next and how to interpret some of the following things:

    1. When we were talking about the gym, I mentioned that I used to go to the gym with a girl (pre-selection attempt ); in response to that, she asked me if I was going out with the girl, as well - I obviously said that I used to, but no longer am, because she moved abroad (which is true).
    Then she started to tell me about how she'd lost about 50lbs, as well.

    2. She was slightly kinoing me during the ice hockey match - she high-fived me a few times, etc.

    3. She looked me up on Facebook and added me, in response to which I said "Hey hey, isn't texting easier? Now you'll just go through all of my pictures.". She was very receptive to that, her responses were instant.

    4. It took me exactly five messages to sexualize the conversation - it wasn't anything heavy, but I got her to complain she "has the smallest boobs in the gym" (which, by the way, isn't true). I messed around with her, told her that "even small boobs can be useful", to which she responded with "You seem experienced " - I thought it was a shit test, so I joked about it and moved on to a new topic.

    5. Today, when we were at the gym, she kept reinitiating conversations with me and even after the gym, when I was talking with her boyfriend, she kept reinitiating the conversation. Also, her body was facing me the whole time.

    6. I've noticed that she tries to agree with most stuff I say and she often looks at me to see my reaction after she says something.

    7. She kissed her boyfriend right in front of me, but she kept looking at me, direct eye contact.

    Now don't get me wrong, I'm not too keen on getting her, I do not have oneitis and I am seeing other girls (I have a female wing, anyway), but the thing is, so far, I've only been with girls who are 19-20, I'm 19. This girl's turning 23 this year, so I want to give it a try. I've always wanted to be with an older one, what can I say?

    I'm just a bit confused if these things are actual IOIs or if she's just too friendly.

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    Tetembay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Number-closed, but...

    It's hard to say. The real test is to ask her out/get her to a place where she can kiss you without social pressure, get her turned on and go for the kiss. Then ramp it up fast. You said she has a boyfriend so it'd be better to go from kiss to sex in one meeting. OR you could just go meet a girl that is single. just sayin'

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    Tomynho is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Number-closed, but...

    Quote Originally Posted by Tetembay View Post
    It's hard to say. The real test is to ask her out/get her to a place where she can kiss you without social pressure, get her turned on and go for the kiss. Then ramp it up fast. You said she has a boyfriend so it'd be better to go from kiss to sex in one meeting. OR you could just go meet a girl that is single. just sayin'
    1. He's becoming my friend, otherwise, I wouldn't even care. I usually don't talk with her much, so she can't exactly "categorize" me.
    2. I've had a lot of stuff going on (including other girls), so I have a legitimate reason for not having contacted her (I haven't even been to the gym as much).
    3. I've added the benefits to my best friend, so-to-speak. + I'm seeing others.

    I'm just not sure how I'd approach her or invite her to a place where I could work my magic.

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    Tetembay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Number-closed, but...

    Ask her out for an alcoholic beverage at a place near your house. Have her meet you at your place. The subtext clear. The subtext is we're gonna fuck. This is my attitude towards girls that are on the fence/have boyfriends/have some situation. You wanna move it to the bedroom fast without rushing it. My frame is I'm busy, you're hot, fuck me or friend me but don't waste my time.


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