Re: Why most guys cannot get a Girlfriend=Oneitis
Originally Posted by CesareBorgia
And that may be, again I am not arguing with the fact that I may suck, fail, or make mistakes. Not at all. But let's not forget where I have come and what I progressed to not even have 10's talk to me to now them approaching me and giving me their numbers, this a huge leap of progress and some guys will NEVER reach this level. Some guys cannot do any better than a 7 because they are solely relying on their natural game.
Like some chick she was a 7 at work and everybody thought she was so insanely pretty but due to the quality of girls I refer to her as a "hot gorilla" she had a deep voice and a monkey looking face but yeah it was obvious she was hot. Just the way I qualified her and NEGGED her in my head.
Well anyway that broad is getting married to some loafer. He really thinks he hit the "jackpot" but I have a different perspective. Anyway what you are saying is probably true I know I definitely need to up my game this year. The fact that you are focusing on the 10's is kinda pre-mature because I already stated that was the focus this year and I barely started my warm up for going out in the year and so far only 4 numbers this year.
However I am not going approach crazy or in a frenzy because now I am pickier about who I approach. I go for the girls I want now not just something to pass the time or warm up on.
Granted you think these numbers are going nowhere and to have no label or goal. But girls will not respond to me without some kind of goal as in Summer fling, date, girlfriend, hang out, etc you gotta do something with that number and I put the label I want on the interaction. Granted these girls are testing out the lawns elsewhere so be it, they are still where I left them. If I called them right now this second, they would probably answer wondering what I got to say and because my mind is focused on Summer flings I just don't need to call them so they are going to sit in limbo land.
You think they are playing me but have you considered or remembered that I am playing them? I am playing them as well. I would be more than willing to go get new contacts and believe you me I am all about trying new things, after all half the time I am trying new stuff. Lately the phone calling and relationship thing is resonating the most with these 10's where as last Summer it was the hooking up method so I don't know they are always changing it up on me so of course I am going to be exploring new horizons you are not telling me something that is not already in the woodworks.
Also you don't know me so you have no idea Summer is when I go all in and all out. So right now I am in warm up phase. I am not really srs about chicks I meet this is why the long holds, I will shotgun them more this Summer and quicker. But still you really don't know I am slacking or slipping until Mid-Summer so come then I will be in better spirits and more chicks so I won't be all this needy and stuff after all I am not in abundance yet but once I start the marathon my perspective will change.
My entire Pick Up Persona is built around the foundation that. Ends with the idea of Summer! I used to go out all crazy in the Spring and Winter time but I decided screw that.
Now that I found during Year 1 in scouting phase I found that target rich locals were more saturated during the warmer tropical months and the Clubs while packed during the Winter they were devoid of quality girls and yet over the Summer nights they were like a mad house.
This is why I built my entire foundation on it.
Hibernate in the Winter
Warm up in the Spring (no need for Warm Up sets on Summer Nights)
sarge in the Summer (10+ Sets a Day/Night)
Cool Down in the Fall (relationship time)
So no I got this down to a t, again granted plenty of stuff to work on but you are speaking to my Warm up Spring Phase mind which is frankly indifferent towards these interactions with women, not to mention I am trying to not be so Outcome Dependent and sounds like you want me to be Outcome Dependent?
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.