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Thread: Help me

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    Default Help me

    I need help.


    I found this woman online ,I never met her in person. She seems like she is a good match for me.


    She lives 2000 miles from me. She is dating a guy and she is serious with him (dating at least a year) She is 32 years old like I am


    I want to send her a facebook message to get her interested in me but I have no idea where to begin.


    Is this a good one to send or how should I improve this message:


    My name is Jason and I am 32, I want you to read this whole message because it comes from my heart


    I think you are the most beautiful woman I ever saw (inside and out)/ I am not bsing,I really feel that way


    Your smile gives me goosebumps. Your eyes are perfect


    I love the fact that you are a very smart, independant ,caring funny and,loving person. I love how you work with computers,that is such a great fun important job.I took computer classes in high school and one computer class in College (mostly about programs for Microsoft). My high school class I actually programed a text based cpu game during class .It was fun


    I love all those funny things you do (like the hyeena noises and sex jokes you did on in your youtube videos) they brighten up my day and make me happy. Those things make me like you more.I love your cute shirt you had on in one of your videos.


    I actually think we would complement each other well as friends or more and I would make you so happy .I love being funny too once in a while and I would make you laugh like you make me laugh.


    I actually get excited watching you in your youtube videos and seeing you in your pics. Something about you just makes me so happy


    I would be perfect for you . I got bullied too as a kid and I can relate to what you went through with as a kid. I would love to grow with you and thus have us help each other grow and excel


    . I wouldn't let anyone hurt you anymore (not that you couldn't protect yourself).When I heard you cry in your vlog i cried with you like it happened to me. But I feel such a deep instinct to protect you (I can't even describe it)and I have like a emotional connection I feel to you and i've never met you. I doubt your boyfriend/ cares for you as much as me


    I know you have a boyfriend/, but I don't think you are as happy with him as you'd want and I think you can do better (ME) Why settle for someone when you can find someone who you might truly be meant to be with (ME) .I mean marriage lasts a long time, you should at least try other options before you get married (ME)


    I appreciate you, would care for you and vice versa, love you better than your boyfriend ever would (not that he doesn't now) We would complement each other perfectly.We would help each other grow and grow together.


    And I am emotional too, and I love lots of romance movies (I always root for the people to fall in love)


    There are billions of guys on earth, I feel we were meant for each other. Like I would feel comfortable around you.


    Then i give her a run down of my life


    Ok to the PUA forum readers,


    She has a high income (she makes a lot of money) I can't work because I take care of my mom at home while my dad is working. I used to work for family members in my late teens 20s doing maintence for them.Then I had a maintence job at a church for a year.


    My mom put me on SSI as her way of compensating me for helping her as a caregiver. It's all unoffical


    How do and should I relay this to the girl I want to date online?? Would she think it's cool i am a caregiver for my mom who gets compensated through SSI


    How do i convince her I will get a job ??


    So please help me get the girl

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    Default Re: Help me

    I hope this is a joke. If it isn't then look up cures for the dreaded oneitis.

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    Default Re: Help me

    Please say this is a joke because if you send that message I can guarantee you that she will NEVER reply to you or contact you because it's super creepy ....... you've never met this girl and you are talking about her marrying you ........WTF ?!?!?!?!?!
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Help me

    Quote Originally Posted by Tetembay View Post
    I hope this is a joke. If it isn't then look up cures for the dreaded oneitis.
    You guys crack me up. Love your antics. And you say I am an ass, tsk tsk. Maybe I am a lot to handle okay? Anyway you guys know I know how to produce results. Whether getting girlfriends, dates, numbers, make outs, validation, etc. I can always get it. My struggle is the getting laid part I mean I am not trashy enough to bang just any chick and my gut feeling (morals) usually pushes random chicks away who wanna hookup with me. I prefer the long game scenario for hooking up but even then I usually get bored and bogged down to even want to hookup with them.

    No I am not a virgin just turned down a lot of poon. I mean A LOT. I want a really special girl and guess I got high standards but onto my best year (yes I will get laid more so you guys know I can prove myself). Anyway my ideals aside onto this letter from the dude.

    Guys this is not a joke, give the guy a break. YOU HAVE ALL BEEN THERE.

    I am still creeping on some 10 I met 2 years ago. 2 fvcking years!
    I still keep my EX in eternal limbo.
    I got tons of new chicks/mostly 10's on hold till Summer (mating season)
    I have a 7 who claimed me at work and she is really srs (oh snap!) wants something srs from me I can tell (yikes!) cuz I work with her got to be nice!

    In spite of all this I still am hungry as a hound to get out there and sarge like a boss. But my point is I messaged some chick online (an HB9) for 5 months strait with no reaction from her and still had a hard time getting over her!

    Jason,

    What you are doing is normal. Just send the last half of the message about your situation and mom and stuff. Honestly the crap about you love her was boring as hell but your situation was kinda interesting and I know you will delete that stuff out.

    My new thing is being transparent. Be transparent with her even for self-depreciation. Laugh at yourself.

    I will be doing that much much more.

    I totally dogged myself on FB the other day on an HB9's wall and you know what screw her it felt damn good. I was like yeah I make 15$ an hour and still love with my Mom in my 30's, that's me right thur. And you know what I am finding honesty is pretty dang attractive. Me living with my Mom doesn't stop the constant influx of poon coming at me constantly.

    I think you honestly need to get over this chick and merely write to her about love as a joke. I only joke about love anymore. When I talk to them about my feelings (hopeless romantic) I am literally making it all up and I am totally full of crap but they love to hear that nonsense so they end up buying it. Sometimes I really do like a chick tho.

    Srs Jason there is chicks everywhere and you worried about some broad 2,000 miles away? Whipped.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack


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