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Thread: The key to passing any "test".

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    Default The key to passing any "test".

    I'm going to tell you guys how to pass any sh!t test a woman throws at you without even thinking about it. They key to pass the test is your attitude. If you have the right attitude you will automatically pass any test a woman throws at you. It gets to the point that women test you very little if you have the right attitude. They will be so happy to be with an awesome guy they won't test you much in the first place.

    Having the right attitude is easy. All you need to do is realize that you are awesome just the way you are and that you have allot of options among beautiful women. That's it. If you can engrain this into your head you will be super confident, and you won't put up with bullshit because you know you can get someone else.

    Once you get this attitude you wont even worry about "tests". In fact, the better I became myself, the more I got this attitude and now it's fully engrained into my brain. I don't even think about "tests" anymore. I just automatically pass them with ease. Once you have the right attitude, you also find the women you are with testing you much less then before. In fact, I cant think of any hardcore "tests" my last girlfriend ever gave me. They don't need to test you if you don't give them a reason too.

    That last sentence is key. Allot of guys say that a woman testing you is a good thing because that means she likes you. I'm going to disagree with that statement. If a woman if ferociously testing you, you have already screwed up and gave her reason to doubt you. Don't give her a reason to doubt you.

    If you find yourself asking "Is this a test? How should I handle this?" you have a long ways to go. You still don't value yourself enough. Trying to pass a specific test is like putting a Band-Aid on a deep wound that needs stitches. It might slow the bleeding for a short period, but you haven't fixed the real problem.

    Remember. You are the shit and any woman would be lucky to be with you! Live it and your fear of "tests" will disappear!

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: The key to passing any "test".

    While this is very good stuff , I disagree that if you are getting a shit test you've screwed up ...... I'm currently gaming a girl at work , she's 27 I'm 47 and there is really good chemistry between us so the other day she calls me in the afternoon and says she came by in the morning but I wasn't around, I told her I was at the dentist getting a wisdom tooth removed and without missing a beat she says "you are like in your 40 ' s why are you having a wisdom tooth removed" ,now luckily I realized what was going on and responded " yes I am in my 40's , and interestingly enough my last girlfriend was 25" ...... since that little exchange she has been coming by my office every morning to "talk about work" ..... it's only a matter of time before we go out ..... so yes, I got shit tested but there is nothing screwed up ...... another thing I will say is guys don't always be so quick to respond ,...not just to shit tests but to texts and emails ......... THINK before you hit send
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: The key to passing any "test".

    There's a girl I've been seeing and everything went well, but now my mind is bent.

    The girl recently got out of a harsh relationship three months ago and seems to be bothered by it, to be honest I don't think she's over it.

    The nature of the relationship was brutal, and she's being very cautious here.

    She told me she's not yet ready for a relationship. Now I have had a few people say that and still was able to get with them, or have a relationship with them.

    After she said that however her body language and actions still indicated that she was into me. After she said that she hugged me multiple times and hung around me learning about me and telling me about her.

    However, my mind is thrashed looking for the next move.

    She is the type to want to know you inside out and to make sure you like her not just for the sex. She is into spiritual things like fortune telling, and physical things like walking. She is sentimental.




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    Default Re: The key to passing any "test".

    This is what I wrote "If a woman if ferociously testing you, you have already screwed up and gave her reason to doubt you." I wouldn't put your scenario in that category.

    I've lived it. I went from getting tested allot to getting tested very little. When I was getting tested allot it was because I gave them a reason to doubt me. If I passed the test I was fine. However; there was no need to even get there in the first place. If I had as much confidence as I do now they wouldn't have been testing me as much.

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    Default Re: The key to passing any "test".

    Quote Originally Posted by Jello View Post


    No! This is not a shit test. She's obviously still hurting from her last relationship. This doesn't mean anything. She still likes you, and if you continue to progress with her, things will fall into place naturally. Don't think everything a woman says is a shit test BUT don't believe everything a woman says either. Ignore the relationship thing and have a good time with her.

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    Default Re: The key to passing any "test".

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    No! This is not a shit test. She's obviously still hurting from her last relationship. This doesn't mean anything. She still likes you, and if you continue to progress with her, things will fall into place naturally. Don't think everything a woman says is a shit test BUT don't believe everything a woman says either. Ignore the relationship thing and have a good time with her.
    Thanks, I have continued, we have grown a lot closer since then. She's is still scared, so I understand now but I only catch glimpses of her true feelings and how fast she hides them again. Sad. Guys even on the field leave things better then you came.

    I'm still around though cause I think there's a chance for happiness with her.

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    Default Re: The key to passing any "test".

    Jello, the more authentic you are with her and share yourself, the more she will see that it is a safe environment to do the same. When she does, receive her and she will decide that she can trust you.


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