Hey Fellas...so I was dating a dime piece (total 10) a few weeks. I was doing everything right...text game, negging, push/pull, cocky funny...all that and it worked! She was eating out of my hand.
My problem was I don't date alot of 10s so I think I sort of sabotaged it. I failed a shit test and the power shifted to her. Anyway during that lull I said something pretty stupid and she pretty much broke up with me via text. It was fucked up. So of course I miss this 10 (there are not alot in my town) and I'm tring to figure out a way to get back into it. Yea I know there are plenty out there but man my time is so limited. I figure I try to invest the time here vs. start from scratch. That shit can get tiring.
Anyway I found out about this program that walks you through a process to get a girl back. I have a letter I created using the pricipals of the "magic letter". The piece of advise I've been noticing is to wait 3 weeks. I can see how that makes sense for a longer term but what if you only dated a few weeks? We definitely had gotten to a point where we almost said I love you but like I said I sabotaged it.
Anyway here is a sample of my letter. I will also add notes so you can see how they created this "magic letter". Would love to get your guys input here.
......First intro and establish an emotional connection.....
HelloÖ.I was cleaning out my facebook inbox when I found this. I think this was from a while ago and I just missed it. I have been thinking a lot about that last week when shit got crazy between us. I understand that you cutting it off was forthe best. Fuck I would have done it too if you were treating me that way. I respect your decision but I need a minute of your time to get some things off my chest.
Before I share my thoughts with you, I just want to make onething clear. I really care for you. The real you won me over, from your nononsense tell it like it is style, to the way you would smile at me so shy andlay your head on my shoulders when I kissed your hand. I loved your uniqueness and willingness to bespontaneous with me. There was a senseof adventure when we were together. Mostof all though, I loved how genuinely loving and empathetic you were witheveryone, especially your family. Yousaw the issues I have with my family and you gave me advise and helped me getperspective. You have such a close bondwith your mom and sisters, I have always respected you for that ability to loveendlessly.
Also, you were the most beautiful woman in the world tome. I would have sung that to you everday and never gotten sick of it. I wouldhave given you the world. I adored youand I deeply cared for the person you seemed to beÖ.
.....The next part is the hook (the pushing away). This is suppose to generate stress in the gf because you are now painting a picture of how she "really" is. Woman hate to be seen in a bad light. BTW need your input here. Feels a little long and redundant......
However what I have realized over the past couple of days is that I might have been wrong about who you truly were. I was immature and stupid and yes there was something I was taking that contributed to me acting stupid during the week leading up to things but never for a second did I think you would just drop me over text. You even told me once that you thought breaking up over text was a shitty thing.
The thing that truly pissed me off is how you just grouped me into the mix of other douche bag guys you have dated without any consideration for who I am as an individual and how I had always treated you with respect and adored you when we were together. You avoided things all together and just told me you were ignoring all my text and vmail messages. I understand you were mad at me and wanted to hurt me but did you think it was fair to handle it that way? You didnít give me the dignity of closure and had me to a point where I couldnít focus on my life.
This makes me feel like I was wrong about you and that maybe you just played me and took that as an opportunity to break away from this relationship. I have had my share of being played and Iím so over being involved with people who look at relationships as a game. I had thought you were the one where I didnít have to worry about that shit. I was feeling secure in this relationship and when I finally let my guard down I feel stupid because I think I might have misjudged someoneís character again.
.....This next section is suppose to be about you giving her another chance to redeem herself. This is where you suggest the friend part. Note how you also paint a picture of some future fun event you can do together....
Despite my doubts, I believe that the universe brings people together for a reason and I have to trust in all those things that made you special to me from the beginning. We only have so much time in this world and only so many people we can let into our lives. Iím not asking you to take me back and give me a second chance. I respect your request, however I happen to think you are special and it would be unfortunate if we couldnít be friends. I believe there could still be some fun memories ahead as friends. Shit I still have those monster mash tickets and would love to take someone who would love that show as much as me. I canít think of a better friend to take than you.
Anyway, Iím going to send you a friend request through facebookÖ.I took some time thinking about whether to do that so I understand if you will need some time to think about it as well.
I know this got a little long but I appreciate you takingthe time to read what I wanted to share with you. Goodbye.
Alright fellas what do you think? It feels long but it general follows the principals of what is talked about. Feedback welcomed!