Met this girls when she's in a long distance relationship, months ago she's asked me if i like her and it ended up she's having kinda the same feeling on me as well. we kissed at some stage, but she didn't realised she need to leave her bf for me and she can't have 2 at the same time. so i told her i will leave her life, and would love to get into relationship with her once she's single. she cry for the whole night after i told her that, and that night she told me actually her bf doesn't really care about her and won't committee. she also kinda losing feeling about her bf as well. then after that know she's knows that she's has to be single to be with me, and i didnt giving anymore pressure on her, but everytime we hang out, she will sneak in those question like will you parent like me etc that kinda make me feel like she's making sure i am a good deal to break up for. but then is been a while, she's doesn't seems like she's gonna break up and sometimes when i asked she's like she wanna be fair to her bf and don't want to just brake up this way.
i am confused why is she keep saying she's gonna give chance to her bf and wouldnt just leave him?
and what can i do?