Okay, ive been real close with this girl for almost 2 years. I didnt even like this girl before we became co workers, and then we became really close. She's been on a on and off relationship for 2 years. Riht now, it's been really shakey with her relationship. We're really close and she thinks im one of her best guy friends(which is somewhat a bad thing coz that's like a ticket to friendzone). So im doing the best I can to not be her best friend and trying really hard to not just be the gay bestfriend type. During the time she's still with someone, i still date a couple of girls, but they just suck coz i keep comparing them to her.
So my conclusion now is to actually make her feel or tell her that i like her. The thing is, I dont know when coz she's still on her shakey relationship. Im just so tired of telling her ,as a good friend should, that they should try to fix it. So how and when should I take action?