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    Default How do you turn a girl in your social circle into a girlfriend?

    Anyone with experience, please respond.

    I have plenty of female friends in my social circle that I know from work, school, church etc.

    The problem is, I've never flirted with any of them, because I wasn't ever interested in pursuing anything more than friendship.

    So how do I go about this? Do I just randomly ask them out next time I see them?

    Or do I start by flirting first then ask them out?

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    Default Re: How do you turn a girl in your social circle into a girlfriend?

    Chances are they don't see you as a potential partner... yet. So yeah, flirt with them but don't be cheesy, keep it light and fun and in my opinion it would be better to be direct. Trust me, you can still keep it light while being direct.

    Remember there are two sides to this. Some of your female friends might be intimidated of the fact that you're flirting with them. That's okay though. I'm assuming you're not looking to date with all of them either. So don't be phased or feel bad about yourself if some of them reject you. If they reject you it's most probably because they got too comfortable in your friendship, not because you suck...
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    Default Re: How do you turn a girl in your social circle into a girlfriend?

    yeah.. no.. if you go in directly and she rejects you - boom, awkward friendship, she tells your mutual friends you're interested in her and your plans on gaming other girls (friends) will be sabotaged. When it comes to stuff like this, I always go indirectly, getting ioi's and acting as if you're just going with the flow and that your emotions for the target started developing not so long ago. No one can point fingers at me because I'm the opposite of a platonic male so me flirting with even girls who are my friends is normal. But honestly I game my female friends only for practice and to make them feel wanted, qualified, without showing any overt affection and without getting their feelings hurt, I strongly suggest you do the same, works wonders and is always a win-win situation. I envy you for catching feelings for a friend, I love chalenges, and breaking out of the friendzone (especially if you know the person a long time) sounds like a tough nut to crack so I wish you best of luck on your current mission

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    Default Re: How do you turn a girl in your social circle into a girlfriend?

    I guess there's a bit of confusion here. These girls from your social circle, are you friends with them?? Or do you just know them from your social circle??

    See there are two different approaches for both cases ino:-

    1. If you are friends with them, they probably see you as a "nice guy". So you have to develop that sexual interest in them. In this case Direct would be the appraoch.

    2. If you just know them from circle, go Indirect. Reason: same. If she rejects you, she'll tell every one else and your reputation is gone to hell already.

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    Default Re: How do you turn a girl in your social circle into a girlfriend?

    Good points guys, that's just my opinion to go direct.

    Being indirect in any circumstance is just a bit more slow and an uncertain way for me. Sure it's discreet, keeps you away from "trouble" and is less risky but there will come a time even if you go indirect you'll still have to face rejection and being indirect is no insurance that she won't "tell everyone to drop your reputation".

    Plus the OP seems he's in multiple social circles anyway, so he has the chance to try both approaches in each circle.
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