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Thread: Getting the girl in a long distance relationship

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    Default Getting the girl in a long distance relationship

    Ive been lurking for a good while off and on when something comes up in the past but I ive never had this come up and I actually like this woman so here I am posting.

    Basically, I just met this girl the other night at a Papadosio concert. She had come with the group of friends I went with in the other car that we had. We hung out a lot at the concert and just got to know each other, had fun, goofed off and got loud etc. I didnt really have any interest in picking her up as a girlfriend, or as anything really because it just never crossed my mind, until after I got to know her a little more. All through out the show a few of my friends would pull me aside to tell me I should hookup with her and that they thought she was interested in me but I still kinda just shrugged it off.

    Later in the evening she had mentioned to me that she currently has a boyfriend and she is in a long distance relationship and then immediately told me she wasnt sure if it was going to work out though. She again mentioned her boyfriend and said she also had a previous relationship with him (so he is her ex too) that didnt work out. She took my number that night and contacted me the next morning and we chatted on and off literally all day while we were both working. The next day (today) I havent really had much contact with her because I dont want to seem too clingy and needy but we have made future plans to hang out again soon and to go to more concerts and shows togethers.

    I know her LDR will fall apart on its own but my question is should i keep building attraction while im waiting for that to happen? i feel like i should but is there a point where it would be too much and i could end up hurting my chances in the long run? Ive never been in any situation involving a LDR and Im not really sure of the best way to handle this.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Getting the girl in a long distance relationship

    Most likely she's looking for someone else, and when she finds him, she will dump her boyfriend. I've been in your situation about 4 times in college. I never did anything until after they broke up with their boyfriend but I easily could have. They all gave me massive ioi's, they all had long distance boyfriends, and I knew they were into me. The relationships always ended and I could have easily slept with them all while they had boyfriends.

    That being said, if you like her go for it. There's a reason your friends all pulled you aside. Sometimes it's allot easier for other people to see when a girl is REALLY into you. The only reason she mentioned her boyfriend is to unload the responsibility on to you just in case something happened. She also told you she didn't know if her relationship would work (she has doubts). This is a massive green light for you. I can guarantee that once you two start messing around the boyfriend will be gone immediately.

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    Default Re: Getting the girl in a long distance relationship

    Just run your usual game on her, she's going to be even more attracted to you due to the fact that her relationship's falling apart and you're sweeping her off her feet like prince charming.


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