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    Default Re: In college and interested in a girl in campus.

    Yes you are right. I found that when I start approaching random girls asking for direction, time...etc I am starting to feel much more confident and I feel less needy about this girl. I like this new feeling acually, I start to feel that even if things didn't work out well it doesn't matter all that much I am confident and that is the true gift. I am not going to lie and tell you I will not really care because I will but a lot less than before.

    I ditched everything PUA related just focus on being bold and saying stuff that come to my mind freely even if it is stupied/dump. I feel much more in control that way. Still the interaction may not go the way I want but I am definitely improving. Even id yhe girl thinks I am stupied I don't really care it's her problem that os the Mindset I am trying to implement in my life.

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    It's because you feel nothing for her. You do NOT know her ! This is what happened to you:

    "Often, when we have a crush, when we lust for a person, we see only a small percentage of who they really are. The rest we make up for ourselves. Rather than li
    sten, or learn, we smother them in who we imagine them to be, what we desire for ourselves, we create little fantasies of people and let them grow in our hearts. And this is where the relationship fails. In time, the fiction we scribble onto a person falls away, the lies we tell ourselves unravel and soon the person standing in front of you is almost unrecognisable, you are now complete strangers in your own love. And what a terrible shame it is. My advice: pay attention to the small details of people, you will learn that the universe is far more spectacular an author than we could ever hope to be."
    - Beau Taplin
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: In college and interested in a girl in campus.

    this really spoke to me, definitely been there, good old AFC days haha

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    Default Re: In college and interested in a girl in campus.

    She likes you and is dying for you to hit on her. Get your cute butt over to her before your imagination and thoughts psych you out anymore! Go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    It's because you feel nothing for her. You do NOT know her ! This is what happened to you:

    "Often, when we have a crush, when we lust for a person, we see only a small percentage of who they really are. The rest we make up for ourselves. Rather than li
    sten, or learn, we smother them in who we imagine them to be, what we desire for ourselves, we create little fantasies of people and let them grow in our hearts. And this is where the relationship fails. In time, the fiction we scribble onto a person falls away, the lies we tell ourselves unravel and soon the person standing in front of you is almost unrecognisable, you are now complete strangers in your own love. And what a terrible shame it is. My advice: pay attention to the small details of people, you will learn that the universe is far more spectacular an author than we could ever hope to be."
    - Beau Taplin
    True!! (More random characters here to fit word count)

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    Default Re: In college and interested in a girl in campus.

    Hey so did you make a move already? Hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Hey so did you make a move already? Hehe
    OMG ! You're such a girl, you invested too much in this already and it's only the beginning
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    OMG ! You're such a girl, you invested too much in this already and it's only the beginning
    Hahaha Guilty! I really want guys to go hard! In my own life it's different... I have a former Mister Australia after me at the moment and just told him straight up I don't want to waste his time. (Second date) I want someone to love me lonnnnnnnng time
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Hahaha Guilty! I really want guys to go hard! In my own life it's different... I have a former Mister Australia after me at the moment and just told him straight up I don't want to waste his time. (Second date) I want someone to love me lonnnnnnnng time
    Don't hate the player, hate the game...
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: In college and interested in a girl in campus.

    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Hahaha Guilty! I really want guys to go hard! In my own life it's different..
    Never trust a woman's advice on pickup.

    What girls SAY they like is NOT what they ACTUALLY like
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